I am a retired older man and am wondering how the ladies feel about seeing an older man.  I keep myself clean and have respect for the ladies.  I notice when I go to a club they all seen to be looking for a younger man.  I always tip the dancers and am very nice to them.  I don't think I look my age.  Everything still works and I enjoy their company very much.  Do you have any suggestions for us older guys?

I am 63, and I have never found any problem with the hobby.  When you talk about clubs, I assume you are talking about picking up civvies--then, what do you expect?  But I can hardly give you advice there because I have been married 42 years and never picked up a girl.

I am 72, must be to old for this!  The clubs are topless and nude clubs.  Thanks for your reply

My dearest goodtimesman,
No need to fret! We have had a most fruitful discussion on this board, addressing precisely that topic!

Enjoy the read and relaaaax,
the Love Goddess

at least that is what was determined in the last TER poll about client age... link below to the TER Poll Archives, make some interesting reading.
Can't speak to picking up ladies, been married for 36 years now... will never retire fully but can say with some confidence, age has little to do with how you will find treatment from most providers on this site... many of the ladies actually prefer older men as we tend to deal out less horse shit and if experience counts for anything, it is how to treat a lady properly.  Suggest you try a lady or two if so inclined and put age out of your mind... forcing yourself to think about age and performance can have highly negative consequences... just enjoy the moment.

I am nearly 61 and have had a very wide variety of experiences with different age groups and can tell you that the best experiences have always been with mature providers-they know the deal-they get into their work-they know how to communicate-they appreciate being treated with respect and they know we have the financial means to make it a great experience with no haggling or hassles.  I always seek providers who are past their mid thirty's and really like to see girl's who are 40 plus.  As several have said-generally speaking younger gal's often don't like what they are doing-and it shows, or they are supporting a boyfriend-husband and the obligations that go with that etc....So...I like to go for age and maturity -  you just get a better overall experience!

It sounds like it's really just the attitude of the dancers.  They can bump and grind on the younger guys, get their motors revving, and draw more money out of them with a minimum of conversation.  Younger guys also tend to travel in packs, so if one guy peters out, there's always a back-up.  Older guys tend to enjoy conversation as much as, if not more than, a lap dance; fewer dances mean less money.  And if they peter out, then the dancer'll have to move on and find a new mark.

Are you going to the clubs that appeal to the younger crowds or to the actual gentlemen's clubs with dress codes and higher cover charges?

Goodtimesman, It's never too late for you to start.  I'm around 70 and feel I have been very well received in the three years since I started hobbying.

If anything, I'd say many providers even prefer seeing a much-older man...who can be expected to treat them more personally (and be, genuinely, more grateful.)

My suggestion is: forget those stip clubs, where you will be competing with younger guys, and just book some private Incall appointments with well-reviewed provider(s).  

Not meaning to sound crude, but be helpful: remember, this is a paid service.  "If you've got the money, honey, I've got the time."  

If a lady isn't truly willing to see all ages and races, she isn't likely to be in this business.  That's one of the things I like about providers: they are more open minded and less prejudiced (on race and age and other issues) than many other parts of the public.

So, trust me: Relax, book an appointment or two, and enjoy yourself.  You'll never look back.

If you still continue to worry about what you perceive to be an age issue - why not *ask* the provider (either by phone or e-mail)about your issue beforehand.  Spell out your fears frankly, and listen to the reponse.

Best of luck (but you won't need any luck here at all),

BG

i've had providers tell me they prefer older men because they treat them with respect. No teeny boppers for this 58 year old man. I prefer them about 25 to 35.

Courage my friend.  You were in the wrong place at the wrong time is all. Simply try a different place.

Why dont you see an older gal, I just love older men...

Do you ever come to New Orleans ?

It's been several years since I was in New Orleans and don't expect to be back anytime soon.  I am mostly in the Carolinas.  Thanks for your reply.