Dear Love Goddess,

While I was married I discovered how great it felt when my wife teased the tip of my penis with her finger while kissing my nipples.  After a divorce, I somehow discovered that I really like to insert something, say a 1/4" x 2" metal plug, into my penis when I masturbate.  When I slide it in and out and rotate it, it feels just like I'm ejaculating.  So in a sense I get to come lots of times instead of just once.  I've not yet asked someone else to do this for me during sex; I'm not sure why not.  Is this something that some/many ladies would like to do?

Thank you, Love Goddess

Dear Daddyhill1949,

How nice for you to be able to enjoy your body in this way! As to asking "ladies," are we talking professional providers or "civilians?" If it's the ladies who can be found on TER, there shouldn't be a problem. Just pick someone whose consistent reviews indicate experience, maturity and an openminded attitude.

As to "civvies," your guess is as good as mine. Depending on her cumulative sexual experience, a "civvie" could either be OK with it...or she could flee..or something in-between. When I hear about the lack of BASIC sexual information among the general population out there, I'm sometimes dumbfounded. So this practice could seem a little "exotic" for a vanilla woman. But for a professional escort with a few years under her garterbelt? Hardly! In fact, she will most likely be fascinated and inquisitive, and surely add this to her repertoire of sexual experiences.

You bet there are ladies who want to participate in this sexual phenomenon,
the Love Goddess

as a provider I have been asked and done it, although not with a metal object I used a cotton swab lol.  I think metal would have been more stimulating however and comfortable.  The first time I was asked I do have to say I was apprehensive because I was afraid of hurting the gentleman whom asked me to do so.  Afterwards however, I felt a bit hot inside, it was a turn on for me as well as him, who would have thought!  But you are not alone with the enjoyment of that and while some providers may be a bit taken back by it, others will enjoy it and not have any reservations.

Tasha

This sounds really interesting.  I'm a TS and have a  genital piercing but it doesn't give that sensation.   I might have to try this sometime myself.

As for girls, I agree with Love Goddess that you want to find a girl who understands that sensual pleasure comes in a variety of ways.

Have fun!
TS Jamie

do any of the rest of you guys squirm a bit while reading this thread?

Perhaps we could discuss something a little more relaxing, like prostate removal surgery.

I have never done that and i have no intention of doing it for personal reasons. But, whatever you insert in the meatus, and i guess you push it down your urethra, please make sure that it is clean. Because our body, in its natural state without any infection, is a clean environment. If you insert something dirty and get an infection of the urethra, it will be hard to cure. And if not cured, you can have a very bad infection of your whole urinary track with severe consequences on your reproductive capabilities. So, have fun but please be careful

A 1/4" x 2" metal plug? Sounds like a wood screw.


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And the selection is huge.


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will gladly play with you and not for the faint of heart, she may use a sounds device or dilator rather than the smaller plug.
Actually, ladies get a charge out of this (at least the ones I have been with and they have used them) because it gives them a chance to fuck you from the inside out.

Now I know that some will say 'Don't knock it until you try it?' or 'How do you know unless you try it?'  Well I never ate monkey brains either and some do.  But I know myself and I am perhaps the worlds most fussiest eater and I assure you ingesting monkey brains will promptly make me vomit.  So in this vein, I know myself and my penis.  We formed a life long loving relationship when I was about 12 and we know each other well.  When aroused the head of my penis is extremely sensitive. I don't even like ladies to roll their hands over the top of my penis when stroking me and nothing harder than the softness of a mouth or lips can touch it immediately post-climax and even then with extreme care.

One last true snippet about myself.  Many friends and family members laugh at me because through the years I have told them that one of my biggest fears in life is to be hospitalized and to require catheterization.  I know over time this is likely inevitable but I do not know what gives me more nightmares; the insertion or Nurse Ratchet removing it as if she is starting a lawn mower.

So no, there is no f'ing way I will ever insert anything in my penis.  Not gonna happen!!!!    

       



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great.  Some guys are revolted at the idea of eating pussy.  Me?  I start salivating whenever I have the thought.

Playing this way can be dangerous.  Sterility of the implements is absolutely essential.  That is not a simple thing to be sure of without true medical sterilization equipment, proper handling and storage and knowledge.

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I've experienced a lot of things in my life but i think I'll pass on this one.

Playing this way can be dangerous.  Sterility of the implements is absolutely essential.  That is not a simple thing to be sure of without true medical sterilization equipment, proper handling and storage and knowledge of technique.

You know all those TV commercials about pharmacetical drugs?  Where someone says, pretty fast, with a big minimizing smile, "Side effects include..."

I'm waiting to hear someone say sometime, "Side effects include impotence and penile or clitoral detachment".

I'm sure this feels great.  But we really need to know all the side effects.

Squirming alot with you mrfisher

Totally agreed... the domme I refer to above is very careful, and actually does sterilize the implements prior to use...

But I didn't find it as painful or as uncomfortable as I had feared.  

Different strokes (heh) for different folks.  I have found having a ladies lubricated finger up my ass erotic but some guys don't want anything back there.

the implement you speak of is a urethral sound. they come in varying lengths and gauges (diameters) for insertion into and dialation of the urethra.

there are also body jewlery pieces called a "prince alberts wand" created with a similar intent in mind. these pieces when inserted into the penis and anchored by the prince albert piercing can be worn for extended periods of time during foreplay or even masturbation to stimulate and dialate the urethra.

removing them causes increased sensation as well as leaving the urethra dialated and sensitized thereby aking the intercourse to follow heightened and more stimulating.

many skilled dommes are able do sound training as part of their medical play. my only advise would be o purchase your own set for sanitary purposes and to take care in progressing slowly with anyone you play with.

having your own set would make for a lot of fun in your privae time!

~Bella

Have her try it with a "sucked down" peppermint stick (reduce the diameter to a comfortable size for the hole).  The sensation of coming with the "spiciness" of the peppermint is incredible.  Actually introduced to me by my wife, who no longer knows I have a cock.