The Erotic Highway
Re: Young SB's not on BC
Ali2
posted
1 / 19
DCGuido
posted
2 / 19
Birth control:
- Ask her if she uses it. If she does, ask her what method she uses.
- If she doesn't - offer to pay for it if she's willing to start. Don't include the cost of her pills, diaphragm, etc., as part of her allowance. Pay this separately in addition to her allowance.
The point is be the wise, safe, mature adult in the arrangement (i.e.: the Daddy) and help her feel comfortable about these topics.
Then you can both make well-informed decisions about BB or covered.
More than once, my 1st meeting after a M&G was to take her to the lab I use to get tested. The small investment in tests and prescriptions is negligible compared to paying for an abortion or 18 years of child support - not to mention the possible costs of a divorce... Obviously, context may change your approach. If you are just looking for the other type of "BB" (Bang and Bail), it's probably best to just wrap it up, have your fun with CIM and move on. But YOU still need to get those tests - frequently.
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The Cat
- Ask her if she uses it. If she does, ask her what method she uses.
- If she doesn't - offer to pay for it if she's willing to start. Don't include the cost of her pills, diaphragm, etc., as part of her allowance. Pay this separately in addition to her allowance.
The point is be the wise, safe, mature adult in the arrangement (i.e.: the Daddy) and help her feel comfortable about these topics.
Then you can both make well-informed decisions about BB or covered.
More than once, my 1st meeting after a M&G was to take her to the lab I use to get tested. The small investment in tests and prescriptions is negligible compared to paying for an abortion or 18 years of child support - not to mention the possible costs of a divorce... Obviously, context may change your approach. If you are just looking for the other type of "BB" (Bang and Bail), it's probably best to just wrap it up, have your fun with CIM and move on. But YOU still need to get those tests - frequently.
Life is good
The Cat
So for any possible arrangement that I want to last, I make a point of knowing about her status and attitudes on getting pregnant. It's interesting to me that most SB's appreciate my non-judgmental approach and candor, especially when her parents have treated the subject as taboo, and/or when BF's don't even ask or care.
And you're right that older SB's, say over 28-30-ish have learned that dealing with BC is pretty fucking important (pun intended)!
PS: Love the humble brag about Magnums there, PaPa Sweet! :p
Life is good
The Cat
So I keep a supply of Phexxi (or a similar generic) and Plan B at my place, just in case... I get these from Amazon at much lower prices than from retail stores. Surprisingly, none of my SB's ever saw these and called me out as the whore that I am. LOL I suppose the other option is vasectomy...
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The Cat
Daddyhasneeds
posted
14 / 19
TheGentlemanLover
posted
15 / 19
No hormones, only spermicide. Not as effective as other methods. But can be combined to improve efficacy with other things like a diaphragm.
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The Cat
TheGentlemanLover
posted
18 / 19
VCF is widely available near the condoms in most stores at about $11 for a box of 10, if you get it at Walmart or Target or online. Like with condoms and lube and Plan B-type pills, stay away from the major pharmacies where it's twice the price. I purchased the VCF Vaginal Contraceptive Gel for use with my first Sugar Baby who barebacked me on our first BCD. Before we got too far I tossed a condom on me because her period was 11 days ago (pretty much out of the "safe" zone). The Gel goes in with a dispenser, inserted like a tampon. VCF also has a film, but I figured the Gel was easier for her to not mess up. A couple times during oral, I could taste the gel, but it wasn't offensive enough to stop. 