I’ve been messing around with SB’s since late January this year. I’ve been bcd with 4 young ladies. My #1 (whom I just dropped) has been condoms every time except once. We exchanged test results, but she claimed to get a yeast infection soon after we had unprotected sex. I have a problem with this young lady because she has an insatiable appetite for sex, but I can’t perform properly for long periods of time with a condom. My dick eventually gives up and loses its mojo.
SB #2 (who is now #1 after squirting on me during mish last night), actually works for the public health department and got us both tested after our public meet up. She has her masters degree and is on birth control. We’ve been hitting it uncovered since then. SB# 3 and 4 both require a condom. I’ve only seen them once. They are both hot and worth seeing again, but the thought of doing #2 raw does influence me to continue to see her more than the others.It has been my experience that a large percentage of SB's are willing to go bare back. At least of the ones I have been with, about 2/3 have, and it is not something I sought out or screeened for.
Is that your experience as well?
I've played in the sugar bowl over the past 5 years and been with about dozen SB's and they all were BB from the start.
That shit scares me. Young fertile things playing Roulette with my baby batter. Pass.
More often than not, BB is offered after exchange of test results. For pregnancy risk, I pull out if she isn't on some form of reliable birth control.
Tests:
Get tested often - even if you don't do BB.
Get her tested (and pay for it, Daddy) often - even if she doesn't do BB.
Share test results every time you/she gets tested.
Often = at least every 60 days. I get tested every 4-6 weeks, even when I haven't been active or haven't done BB.
Birth control:
- Ask her if she uses it. If she does, ask her what method she uses.
- If she doesn't - offer to pay for it if she's willing to start. Don't include the cost of her pills, diaphragm, etc., as part of her allowance. Pay this separately in addition to her allowance.
The point is be the wise, safe, mature adult in the arrangement (i.e.: the Daddy) and help her feel comfortable about these topics.
Then you can both make well-informed decisions about BB or covered.
More than once, my 1st meeting after a M&G was to take her to the lab I use to get tested. The small investment in tests and prescriptions is negligible compared to paying for an abortion or 18 years of child support - not to mention the possible costs of a divorce...
Obviously, context may change your approach. If you are just looking for the other type of "BB" (Bang and Bail), it's probably best to just wrap it up, have your fun with CIM and move on. But YOU still need to get those tests - frequently.
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I have offered to pay for BC any times with GFs and SBs , but have never had my offer accepted. It is never an issues of them not being able to afford it, or not knowing about their options. It is usually wanting to avoid artificial hormones in their bodies. Even most IUDs (4 of 5) release small amounts of hormones. IUDs also apparently hurt like hell when they are inserted (the pain is intense, but it passes quickly and IUDs often mess up periods in different ways. As a fall back, I only come inside during her period if she is okay with that, and we reach agreement on advance that she would get an abortion if she gets pregnant and I would pay for it (fortunately, never an option that needed to b used).
http://www.phexxi.com/
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http://www.nytimes.com/2021/06/10/style/what-is-phexxi.html
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http://www.health.com/condition/birth-control/what-is-phexxi
What Is Phexxi? The Newest Form of Non-Hormonal Birth Control, Explained
Phexxi comes as an easy-to-use prescription vaginal gel—but it's not quite as effective as other forms of contraception.
I have offered to pay for BC any times with GFs and SBs , but have never had my offer accepted. It is never an issues of them not being able to afford it, or not knowing about their options. It is usually wanting to avoid artificial hormones in their bodies....
I do hear an increasing number of SB's saying that BC hormones including from IUD's are a non-starter. For some that also includes so-called last resort options like Plan B.
So I keep a supply of Phexxi (or a similar generic) and Plan B at my place, just in case... I get these from Amazon at much lower prices than from retail stores. Surprisingly, none of my SB's ever saw these and called me out as the whore that I am. LOL
I suppose the other option is vasectomy...
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Can you elaborate on a generic Phexxi available without a prescription?
Search Amazon for "VCF Vaginal Contraceptive Gel".
No hormones, only spermicide. Not as effective as other methods. But can be combined to improve efficacy with other things like a diaphragm.
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VCF is different than Phexxi, in that VCF is nonoxynol-9 4% (and Phexxi changes the pH vs. being a spermicide.
VCF is widely available near the condoms in most stores at about $11 for a box of 10, if you get it at Walmart or Target or online. Like with condoms and lube and Plan B-type pills, stay away from the major pharmacies where it's twice the price.
I purchased the VCF Vaginal Contraceptive Gel for use with my first Sugar Baby who barebacked me on our first BCD. Before we got too far I tossed a condom on me because her period was 11 days ago (pretty much out of the "safe" zone).
The Gel goes in with a dispenser, inserted like a tampon.
VCF also has a film, but I figured the Gel was easier for her to not mess up.
A couple times during oral, I could taste the gel, but it wasn't offensive enough to stop. 
Appreciate the detailed info. Thank you.
Seems like most of the young SBs I encounter are NOT on birth control. Some fear the hormones messing with their natural cycles. Others have tried various type and had bad reactions. So I just don't press the BB issue and always have a supply of Magnums on hand.
I find the same trend. But I'm not really sure if the prevailing reason are hormones, not really understanding (or caring) about the risks, culture/family background (Catholic/Hispanic culture frowns on BC) or they just can't afford it (because they never bothered to look for free BC). It's probably a mix of some or all of these...
So for any possible arrangement that I want to last, I make a point of knowing about her status and attitudes on getting pregnant. It's interesting to me that most SB's appreciate my non-judgmental approach and candor, especially when her parents have treated the subject as taboo, and/or when BF's don't even ask or care.
And you're right that older SB's, say over 28-30-ish have learned that dealing with BC is pretty fucking important (pun intended)!
PS: Love the humble brag about Magnums there, PaPa Sweet! :p
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In regards to Magnums, I used to think they were for large cocks but discovered this isn’t so. A provider in Vegas schooled me on Magnums and I’ve been using them ever since. The regular confirms squeeze your cock too much where the Magnum fits security in the base of your cock (looks tight) and gives just the right amount of room for the head and upper shaft. Magnums are way more comfortable. Magnum Gold.
I agree! And Magnum Bareskins are even better, thinner, more sensation.
I was going to bust your chops about a 74 yo needing magnums (🤔) but Herb saved you. 😂😂
I’ve been messing around with SB’s since late January this year. I’ve been bcd with 4 young ladies. My #1 (whom I just dropped) has been condoms every time except once. We exchanged test results, but she claimed to get a yeast infection soon after we had unprotected sex. I have a problem with this young lady because she has an insatiable appetite for sex, but I can’t perform properly for long periods of time with a condom. My dick eventually gives up and loses its mojo.
SB #2 (who is now #1 after squirting on me during mish last night), actually works for the public health department and got us both tested after our public meet up. She has her masters degree and is on birth control. We’ve been hitting it uncovered since then.
SB# 3 and 4 both require a condom. I’ve only seen them once. They are both hot and worth seeing again, but the thought of doing #2 raw does influence me to continue to see her more than the others.
In regards to condoms, try sampling the Magdom Gold condom. This condom doesn’t squeeze your head and shaft as much. It fits snug around the base so that it doesn’t come off. A provider in Vegas turned me on to them. Most condoms fit way too tight all over.