Great story dude!  Keep us updated on your thing with the hot server!  I'm not surprised that your profile revision has yielded good results.  I put a huge amount of thought into mine,  wrote what I thought was true info about myself, but expressed it in a way that I though would elicit positive results from the SBs.  And I have several clear pictures.  The results continue to be excellent.  Often I get unsolicited DMs from women who say they found my profile interesting, refreshing, appealing or some other positive remark.  A good profile is your friend.

Glad you're getting better results.   And nice job snagging the civilian server as a new POT!  I've never had the balls to tell a server I was there for a sugar date.  But I may try it now if the circumstances are good.  

 
Of course, when a sexy 20-ish sits down at my table, it's pretty obvious what's up.  And I've been lucky that the server I usually get at my favorite Italian place has never called me out when I show up with 2 or 3 different hotties in the same month. (She's smart enough to know that being cool gets her those 40% tips.)  

 
So I appreciate that you found a better path forward. And I thank you for teaching me something useful along the way as well.  

Life IS good

 
The Cat

Seems that a few of you got a kick out of my server story (thanks) so I thought I'd share an update.  Finally had my first date with my new server friend.  It took a while to coordinate schedules.
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Since she's a server, I thought I'd take her to a nice dinner and let others wait on her.  I get there a couple of minutes early and was seated.  She arrives, takes coat off, etc.  She's wearing tight leather leggings and a sleeveless top no bra.  
 Her long blond hair is pulled up.  She had clearly taken time to look good.  I'm not much of a leather leggings / pants guy but her appearance was stylish and the tight top accentuated her small, pointy boobs.  She looked great and it honestly energized me that she had glammed for our date.
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Drinks and dinner flow and we're having a great time.  She's fun and easy to talk to.  Somewhere in there I bring up how we met laughing that I thought it was great.  She laughs, says she loved it, and in fact she had told a couple of her friends about me and our date.  They all loved it.  After a fun dinner, I suggest we walk over to a bar / club down the street.
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We grab a booth at the bar and she sits close.  At this point, my ego and my confidence are rock'in.  When the mood is right, I gently place my hand on the side of her face and draw her to me.  I kiss the side of her face and in a quiet tone I say "I'm taking you home tonight."  Her reply "I know."  The moment was so hot and steamy (certainly for me), I almost blew a load right there.  lol  She ended up leaving my place the next morning after breakfast.
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Sorry if this is a bit long winded but this date is clearly the best sugar date I've ever had, and the night ranks way up on my fun escort list.  We later discussed economics.  Her rent is 1,300 and car pymt is 300.  So, for 1,600 / mo. plus the cost of dating, she's mine.  I'm not a guy to jump into an allowance, but for 1,600, I definitely intend to hang with this hottie for a couple of months.
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I'm still learning but I can clearly see that young women respond enthusiastically to an older man who is respectfully aggressive.  I think for many, it adds to the older man mystique.  Thanks.  Be safe.

Don't apologize for a great story -- it wasn't long-winded and I, for one,  am very happy that you updated.  Smashing successes are harder to find in the sugar world these days, and "hunting-in-the-wild" stories are always fun.  Nice Job, and hopefully you get several fun months out of casual banter to a server at the start of a dinner date!