Yesterday, finally had a BCD with a cute little petite 21 y.o. and at the agreed price (yay! success).  However, the experience left me somewhat disappointed.  While I've read posts where this age group represents the best sex, I just SMH.  So far, I find this age group not much different than a  cheap drive by.  At least the drive by's will work you hard to finish faster so they can leave.  I doubt I see this one again, despite her looks and proximity.  Maybe I have just been spoiled by my ATF and the couple of regulars I had in the past that I saw at least monthly.  They were grown women past 35 and knew what they were doing and I loved seeing them.  Maybe this is just the difference between pros and the bowl.  Hopefully I will find someone older that will be the best of both worlds.  

DD

There have been many posts in the past on this board about funding, err... I men finding ( your unicorn.  Just search for "unicorn" and grab a cup of jo while you read.

Then keep searching the sugar bowl - your unicorn is out there. And right now she's sucking some other Daddy's dick!

You may be one of those guys. We can't help what we like, if you like older women, the answer is simple, see ONLY women of the age group you prefer.

 
I love the young ones, but when seeing young "non pros" you have to accept the fact that most of these young girls have next to no experience in pleasing "old men" like you (and me. lol)

 
There is most definitely a difference between "pros and the bowl" There are positives and negatives to both. One major thing I have noticed is that with pros you almost ALWAYS get a BJ, that's not necessarily the case in the Sugar World, of course my current favorite who I see several times a week makes it a point to swallow every drop, so hang in there, you will eventually find what you are looking for if you keep at it.

I saw this SB a few weeks ago. Sweet kid. She only wanted $70. Just an ok fuck. Wasnt going to repeat.

She messages me yesterday saying she wants to meet again. Again $70. Had to get her an uber and she gave me cash for that. Lol. I declined her money.

So I try her again.  Three hours later she wanted more. I was done. So we get dressed and chat for a bit. I finally say its getting late. Time for uber. 12 minute eta.  I said itd be nice to get a bj while waiting.  No problem!  So dpnt judge too quickly!

So, new acronym?  

UBJ = Waiting for Uber BJ

Love it!

Herbcat. You in LA?

She came back 10 hours later for more. For free.

Indeed I am. Well, near WH & CP to be a bit more accurate.

Check out madison danielle. 25 yo la

I was afraid to get too descriptive as I thought the Mods might kill my post, but I see now that other more descriptive posts passed so here goes.

This little doll baby is a cute petite natural blonde.  This was our second date and first BCD.  On our first date I felt a bit conspicuous with such a young girl.  I mean, if you are out in public with a woman young enough to be your daughter, you're distinguished.  If you are out with one young enough to be your granddaughter, you're creepy.  And I felt it too.  Every old fart in the restaurant was eyeing her little short shots...lol.  Anyway, she loved 70s music and was a SCI/FI fan.  When I mentioned that I liked Robert Heinlein's work, She spit out the name of my favorite Sci/Fi book that was written in the sixties.  I was really taken aback.  TGTBT?  A demon sent from hell to destroy me?  So on our second date, we had lunch ( I felt a little better) and came back to my house.  She started in on the "poor me", "I don't really do this, but I need the money"  yada yada yada.  So I told her no.  NOT DOING IT.  Not gonna be any fun for me if I'm looking down and you are crying during sex.  So that ploy didn't work and she said yes we were, her rent is due.  The more I said no, the more she came around.  She started by a nice little lap dance ( I love these as a warmup).  and got me going.    She would not do BJ at all, and then when we start, she says she's "little down there" and that maybe my cock was too big.  Well, in my 64 years, my cock being too big has never been an issue.  So finally we get to it, and there is very little if any effort put into it at all.  Not dead, but not active either.  This has been my general experience with the younger ones.  Then afterwards, she actually tried to tell me that this was only the 3rd time she had actually had sex.  She masturbated, but not sex.  I think she left the word "today" or "week" off the end of that statement.  
Now for the strange part, the whole time she was here, my "Spidey Sense"  was going off like a 5-alarm fire.  Again, don't know why, but this woman scares the bejesus out of me.
Yes, I know this is all on me.  I gave her my availability my week and she is supposed to text me when she can meet.  
Yes, I'll do her again.

Like many of you have encountered the young no shows but not really frustrated, it's just part of the deal. One recent no show begged me to reconsider giving her a second chance, and being the softie I am set up a meet for later that day. Then she texts me an hour before and wants to me to show my commitment to her by giving her 200 just for a M&G. Let her know that was not going to happen---then got blocked. Even more outrageous...a pot sb wanted me to forward an allowance several days in advance to our meeting!!! Anyone here get that line before????

On the other side, got the proverbial "Hey!!" pm today from a pot sb. Usually these amount to nothing but some banter back and forth. Had a series of texts and she seemed more interested than the usual sb. Not here in town too long, just got a part time job and trying to establish residency here for school. Sounds like her experience on SA has been marginal at best, thank you to all the poor mannered loser daddies out there, many who don't even want to provide assistance. We get around to the allowance and she says she's been getting 400-600 per meet. My response is standard, my last few SB's were 200 and a bit more for overnights. Accepted and we're meeting later, no expectations with more possible if we hit it off. Seems that newer SB's generally overstate their prior allowances and you are able to negotiate. In any event, I am prepared for an extreme shock and disappointment or possibly a nice time.  

Any other input on handling exorbitant requests for allowances?

If their rate is really high, I ignore them. Often they end up negotiating against themselves and come down into my range and then I respond. If they are just a little higher than what I pay, i wait a little while to respond and, then, I tell them what I will  pay and they usually will accept.  If not, on to the next one.

Needless to say, not surprisingly the sb was a no show. Fortunately the meeting place was only 5 minutes from my house. Five hours later, get the sob story texts about stressing how her finances are a mess and wants another chance. Told her I'd see how my schedule is and will try to work something out. I don't know, this might be a BSC one or a semi-pro who overbooked. Such is life in the bowl, already moved on to some new pot sb

that I don't do allowance only ppm.

I leave monthly as a goal in the future. Of course it never gets brought up again.

a) how do you search for a particular SB?
b) sounds like you guys are both near me........

Sbc..why does she scare the be jesus out of you??