Sex with my curent fav is smooth, soft, sensual and totally satisfying. There is no reason to see another, except for the occasional need to get my greek-freak on (this lady flinches every time I atempt to touch her rosebud). We always schedule via e-mail, so I only look at local schedules when wanting a Greek provider-which is what I did yesterday. Imagine my surprise (and delight) to see that my baby posted that she is now offering greek! So my question is: why would a lady who always demonstrated an aversion to anal play (at least to me) suddenly start offering anal? We're getting together next, and I will ask, but would appreciate some insight before. Thanks in advance

Dear scorpio7,

Although we all can appreciate your frustration and disappointment, this is by no means an unusual situation. I have had therapy clients on the escort side who have described to me the necessity to begin providing anal sex.

The most frequent reason - at least these were their responses when I asked the same question - is increased TER ratings, increased visibility in terms of the competition, and yes, increased pocketbooks. I suppose that the escort field in some ways mirrors the porno industry, in that the stakes for what's "acceptable and within the norms" get higher and higher.

Now in all fairness, some women who escort truly evolve in terms of their own sexual development, and wish to reflect that in their menu of services. It could be that your ATF has come to appreciate anal sex, and simply feels comfortable enough to offer it to clients. And so, you should definitely ask for it and mention the TER profile. If she is reticent, maybe it's your size? Some women offer anal, but only to smaller built gents. If that's the case, then you must live with the "misfortune" of having a larger size penis. Other than that...well, it's a woman's prerogative to change her mind - in either direction .

Good luck and hope it'll all work out,
the Love Goddess

THANK YOU! You suggest two reasons for change, and I suspect her reason has to do with the pocketbook, rather than sexual evolution (the girl has a plan!)Whatever happens, it will definitely work out Based on your wise response, I'm not going to push it, or even ask. If Greek fits into our smooth flow-so be it. And if not-I'll push it with someone else

I provide Greek, I just LOVE it.

But, I do not provide to all guys I know.

I don't mind the size, if the guy is not 12 x 8...which, of course, no one can handle.

I mind the action, HOW the guy fucks.

I love when a guy start nice and slow, in and out, to let me build up my orgasm while I play with my clit.

It takes me a while to cum, so not many guys are able to hold for too long, because the way I do is highly pleasurable for them...I am VERY tight and I can actually "milk" them during the slow process.

Normally, I know if a guy will be a good anal fucker during regular intercourse.

If he likes to ram deep and swirl his hips when he trust - and LAST forever without cumming - he is NOT going to get my ass ever!

So, if a girl do not offer greek to few gentlemen, even if they did meet before, is because the way they use their dicks for other festivities and she might not will be able to endure the same during anal sex.

Also, if I notice the guy is using Viagra or any other drug to give him the steel rod effect, he will NOT get my ass.

BDG

-- Modified on 6/3/2007 8:18:47 AM

'No way you're getting up my ass.'

But now you see:

'For higher fee,
I no longer feel
it's quite so crass.'








-- Modified on 6/4/2007 3:58:17 AM

OK...so that's why I haven't gotten your ass in some time.  thought you just didn't like it from me.  But should have thought it through first...you're always complimenting me.

There's lot's of girls that like anal.  Like ME for example!

I hererby volunteer to take care of anyone who's regular provider or SO doesn't enjoy this wonder form of intimacy!

Giggle,
TS Jamie

I AGREE! Anal can be wonderful, erotic-very naughty. The angles alone open new opportunities! But I tried   the new menu item with my fave, and it wasnt that good-she's not "into" it. Just offering it for the extra cash.