Had high hopes. Went south quickly. One of those dates that pushes me more in the direction of AMPs and Asian agencies.  Not fat. Not trim and fit. Was certainly ready to get out as quickly as possible after we both came. Never got to fucking. Her reason was she had to be somewhere.  She forgot she told me she had to be there by 10. It was 6:30.

All she is.  Plenty of cooler girls out there

Whenever i have skipped m&g and gone straight to bcd (because I was horny that day) , it has been a disaster and waste of money  

As a rule I always feel them out — chemistry etc at m&g first

One of the reasons a POT may enter the Sugar Bowl is that she lacks the core life skills needed to be successful in her chosen path.  Attracting an SD can be an attempt to short-cut the learning curve without putting in the time needed to develop the skills and experience she lacks.  

 
Sadly, that includes the skill of lying.  A good lie is generally based on some level of truth, with just a few aspects either stretched or altered. It's almost funny, really. Her lie told you more about her true motives and ethics than she realized.  

 
Now you just need to decide if you want to repeat with her in the hope she will improve. Perhaps you can chat with her first to clarify your expectations on what activities are expected from each BCD date.  

 
In product engineering, we call this the MVP (Minimum Viable Product). It represents the minimum set of features needed to fulfil the client's requirements for the service.    Maybe send her this link to a site on Agile Product development. LOL  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Nope. Thinking with the wrong head

No interest in her. Too large

There is much wisdom in this assessment, Herb. I do think in some cases open communication with some SB's can lead to great improvements if they are open to learning. People often make assumptions and pre-judgements of one another's behavior as to the other person's motives, when the actual reality is something quite different.  

 
Once I had an SB make a hasty retreat at the beginning of our SR but did not communicate with me clearly why. It turned out she had misinterpreted something I had said during our first BCD and assumed it was something that turned out to be a simple miscommunication. [OpSec prevents me from elaborating but the point is made]. To her credit, she remained open to further communication by not ghosting and we talked it through, thus saving the SR. [At least until the next misunderstanding!]  

 
My feeling on it is always try to work on issues of compatibility by communicating. These girls are often young and inexperienced and as you say, Herb, lack the life skills to succeed in their chosen path, and by extension, human relations. [Which includes sugaring].  

 
It might be a lost cause and it's better to cut bait, but it may be worth at least trying to salvage something if there is potential to make improvements.  

 
As Daddies we need to be a guiding light and the adult in the room, helping to help her navigate life's many pitfalls. [As well as navigating in the bedroom!] If she is not communicative and remains ignorant of her weaknesses, simply wish her well and send her off into the world to find her own way.

 
There will be other SB's where she came from that may be more open to guidance.