How long do most men last during the actual act of vaginal intercourse before popping? Needless to say, I've have no way of knowing, only women would know from experience. When I watch porn, these guys are lasting a long time and I wonder if I'm out of the range of normal guys. Of course, they are pros and there is likely editing, but I wonder if I'm missing out on a better, or different, experience. I'm not all hung up on it or anything, though.

because for many years early in my sex life condoms were not in common use. My crank has never gotten used to them and I rarely if ever cum in a condom. I always tell a new lady that I can go on quite a bit and that they should feel free to call it quits if it gets to be a bit much. I do love it though! But I usually cum with a good BBBJ, as long as the lady has not "learned" how to do it from modern porn, in which case lessons are in order.... you will find that the "normal range" includes premature ejaculators and retarded ejaculators. Providers are used to this. Just communicate with them, have a good time and dont worry about it. For the hobbyist, pleasure is the goal not performance. When we leave our ego at the door the ladies appreciate it.

When I was younger, always came too soon... though as said above, pre-condom days.

Now in mid fifties, takes forfuking ever with and often without condom!  When I first started hobbying, rarely came in a condom.  At this point, I'd love to have my younger problem.... cum quickly and have that out of the way to go on to thoroughly enjoy making love the rest of the time!

But I've pretty much learned what works for me and that is mutual passion and lots of relaxed tease/foreplay so that I just can't wait another second to be in her.... then I can sometimes pop almost immediately or within 10-15 minutes.  And if the foreplay has her so hot she is grabbing me and pulling me in.... that works too!

What I've learned overall is there is absolutely nothing that feels better than being inside a wet woman..... with my fingers, face, dick.... whatever!  And whether I cum too soon, take forever, don't cum at all, it is still absoulutely awesome as is mutual passion, gentle loving touch, stroking...... I love it all.

With that mindset.... there is absolutely no pressure on orgasm and every experience is a blast!

You didn't specify your concern.... sounds like if you are comparing to the porn films, you may be worried about not lasting long enough.  Plenty of tips available there, but the biggest one I'd have if that is the problem is just relax and don't worry about it and enjoy.  Most of the providers would probably be delighted to have you pop quickly anyway!

Dear MyTube,

Please see the same issue discussed further down the page. The average - and that's average in a very loose sense - is around 2-3 minutes.

We have also discussed porn stars and their ability to go on and on. No sense in making comparisons to real life either. And believe me, most women do not enjoy being ground into the mattress...ask any provider and she'll tell you...

Please see below,
the Love Goddess

When I was a young bull it was all about the end result.  It was all about the end of the trip instead of taking the trip. Now as an old bull I take in the sights of the scenery of the trip.  Not so much worrying about the end of the trip....Cause I eventually get there...

Sorry! I didn't notice the same question was right below. I apologize for the clutter of a repeat question so close by.

with all the unrealistic portrayals of ever-priapic porn stars out there, no wonder it begins to affect even the most even-keeled gentleman of a more normative persuasion. Yup, the problem is ever-increasing. Heck, I remember that in my day, there was no such thing as premature ejaculation...the thing to do back then was load, cock, spray and re-load again...at leisure!

Nostalgia for the good old days,
the Love Goddess

Take it from a young man like me. I am under the age of 23. For my first time... I was so cautious about cumming to soon/too much, that I brought 5 rubbers with me. You would think a young man with no sexual experience would cum quickly, but unfortunately I did not cum at all. It could be my masturbation habits, probably not though because I can cum anytime I masturbate. Might just be the intimacy/chemistry. I do not think it is nerves, I do not feel nervous. Right now... I would rather go the cum quickly route than last long route.

PS: Still have not came, seen 3 different ladies in total.

I've had similar concerns.  I can hump the SO for 10-15 minutes continuously before coming.  With a provider, I'm ready in 2-3 minutes; must be the excitement, or maybe her tightness.

You might say you  never do that, but if you meet the right lady, you will when she wants you to.