I've often referred to my location as being in Pussy Siberia due to the low population numbers and consequently, the low number of profiles on seeking.  My normal search parameters are for ages 18-36 within a radius of 111 miles from home.  I have to go that far in order to include the metropolitan area with a university.  Using those parameters, and also limiting my results to only show members online now, I get 10 profiles.  That's all, just 10.  Just for fun I did a similar search for Phoenix, which I think of as a major sugar dating market, and with only a 27 mile search radius, and found 126 profiles online now.  What a difference! What are your results like for your home area?

Tons of pussy.  But... Most are flakes.  I go 50 miles out.  Which here can be a two hour drive.  So timing is everything.  In the end, it's a numbers game.  If you want to build a solid and ongoing arrangement you have to filter through flakes.  Girls just wanting to make money.  Or ones that quickly get too comfortable and let their side of the bargain slip.

I lived in Palm Desert  for 19 months. Had a few good times but had to go San Diego for a sex trip several times. Id guess the number were that PD was about 20% of San Diego. Throw out the datties and fullness, maybe 10%

Yes, greater Los Angeles is a very tough game. Many of the "high-end" profiles on SA are fake. You must play large numbers and deal with 90% flake rate generally, and those are of mediocre quality, girl-next-door types, at least by my own standards. I've managed to find some nice steadies but they aren't high end runway or Playboy model beauties by any means. But I'm not driving any more than 30 mins one way to meet or bang a POT. Netnoy you are willing to drive much farther than me, but sounds like you've scored some nice ones!  

This is an academic exercise since I'm not actively searching, but seeing very low quality on Seeking in the DC area, although there are tons of members.  
I will occasionally search in the 21-47 age bracket, under 130 pounds, within 23 miles.  Yes you can have a couple of hundred women recently active but I would find only a handful I would want to message (mostly 7s and 8s) and almost none that evoke a "wow." I would add that I also filter for things like GPS and flakiness, and would not include those with a picture in from of Nobu or a Porsche. I realize it can be hard to tell with some and there are some diamonds in the rough.. but still. One of the reasons I'm not ready to re-up. I wonder if the odds are better using Hinge or Bumble.

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