I like a pussy with character. Prominent pussy lips and clit. Not necessarily large but defined. Clit that gets really erect when you tease it out. A pussy that smells and tastes like something. Not unfresh mind you but like a WOMAN. Not sterile. Not any of that damned flavored lube. I dont worry too much about them being tight. Never had one that wasnt. Might have something to do with my crank not being little. Once you're inside it, I think its the angles of penetration that make it good for the lady and also for the man. Not always the same angles though. I love lazy dog. Lady collapsed right down on the bed, hitting hit from a downward angle from behind. That feels really good. Of course I enjoy regular K9 if the lady and I get the relative height and angles just right. Mish also if the lady does not mind my getting right down on top of her. I do watch to keep my weight off her. Theres a psychological bit to it too. If Im really into the lady I'll probably be into her pussy as well. Just rambling here - sorry....

the most important factor in the pussy being good is the intrigue, enchantment, companionship of the brain that it is attached to. that is what gets me, anyway.

as far as the physical sensation of a pussy, it varies enormously. there are differences in texture that i am aware of from committed monogamous relationships and during the happy times before HIV and herpes became prevalent. even with a condom there are easily felt differences in fit in shape and also in vaginal muscle control that can make enormous differences in how it feels.

enough of this rhapsody....

Dear brooke_butler,

I can't speak for the comment made in the presence of your vulvar region, but I can direct you toward the study of pheromones, the vomeronasal organ and what is colloquially known as "the scent of a woman." Now in your case, you may just have a particular ratio of estrogens/androgens/progesterones, in additon to an optimal Ph-level vaginally, that may just make your insides "taste" a little fresher and better than some others? In addition, an alkaline diet, high in greens can neutralize some body odors. Those women who keep a diet low in animal protein will be lower in uric acid.

Other than that, I guess it's just that "sweet mystery of life" - as sung by the lovely ladies Madeline Kahn and Teri Garr in Mel Brooks' classic "Young Frankenstein."

Frau Blucher, who else,
the Love Goddess

Well if you are getting the commments during and after the heat of the moment....

For me it's all about the mutual passion.  Some would say that with a good provider you'll not know if she is enjoying herself or not she'll fake it so well that the fantasy will engulf you.  

I've not believed that ever since about the fifth one I saw.  Sure, some were slick, but at this point, I know what I like.  When it's all spontaneous and not the routing bbbj... to cowgirl... to doggie.... to missionary if you haven't popped... you know what I mean!  

And when it's been all spontaneous starting with teasing kissing and going wherever it goes, and she is so wet and starts bucking against my face like there is no tomorrow, then pulls me on to her like she can't stand another minute.... I end up declaring 'damn..... that is good!"  That has happened three times for me with a first visit, but the most spectacular 'damn... that is good!" has been after a few repeat visits with a four of the ladies where the chemisry was awesome and grew each visit.

As as the organ itself.... I guess it's probably up to individual taste, but if you get the comment often.... my guess would be clean, smooth, small, pink and cute, and tight!

As far as the pheromones and that attraction... you hear so much about clean, fresh, no smell or taste.... while I certainly enjoy clean and fresh, to me there is nothing like the slightly musky sex smell lingering on my face after!  So many of our fine ladies are a little too clean and fresh for me!

The tighter,the better!

I make it a habit not to talk about a woman's genitals as if she wasn't in the room with them. I prefer to say something like "Mmmm, you taste so good baby" or "Do you like it when I rub your ass?" (she does!) as opposed to "that pussy" or "those boobs" or "that ass".

Honestly there are physical characteristics that some guys prefer in a woman's vagina.  If you read the "in search of" board you will see guys asking about providers with large labia, small labia, big clits, small clits, clit location, shaved, unshaved...one guy on the GDB even complained a few days ago that pussy just doesn't smell like pussy anymore...OK, whatever gets you through the day I guess.

Personally I do have a few likes and dislikes but the physical characteristics of a woman's pussy have never been the determining factor in whether I enjoy my time with her or not.

I wish I could provide a better answer to your question but I'm just way too into the whole experience to keep track of how my partner's pussy
is measuring up...

The real question is who have you been with - Huggy Bear from Starsky and Hutch?  I could never imagine saying something like that without laughing my ass off.

Been so long since i've said those 4 beautiful words,,,hell,i almost forget what a pussy looks like!

lol...........

and particularly this past year, when I ended up meeting a gent that I shared such a strong sexual chemistry with, it was almost scary, I've noticed a huge difference when I cum. Not only is it now so intense that I scream (I literally cannot help myself), I have this smell and taste afterwards that varies in strength/potency depending on whom I'm with...I guess it can be described as "musky"...but I don't recall having it even a few years ago.

Anyone know why this is?

This may sound strange, but aside from the importance of cleanliness (univerally excellent amongst the escorts I've seen) I'd have to say there isn't all that much of a difference normally.

I've had sessions ranging from "wouldn't repeat" to "absolutely mind blowing," but it really is the entire woman and the emotional connection that seems to matter.

One thing that does seem to make a difference is whether or not the woman is willing to use a female condom. I love those things.

I've had one Thai woman (currently located in Las Vegas) who could manipulate her pussy like most women can use their hand. That was memorable, but not a really great session.

I had one woman who was on top, rose up far enough to lose contact, and came down hard to recapture it and missed. That left me in severe pain and ended the session. Memorable, but not in a good way. I was lucky not to be permanently injured.

In general, I notice the most difference when I am using a finger trying to find the lady's G-spot. In DATY I am enjoying the sensations and her reactions, not analyzing the shape of her labia. In intercourse, almost all pussys feel good.

I hadn't thought about this, but I guess that I'd have to say that if you blindfolded me and put me in a room with a group of women that I'd previously had sex with and asked me to identify them by the feel of their pussys that I probably would fail. However, it would be an interesting research project.

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...what would make a guy consider a pussy to be *nasty* - that is, to ask the contrary.

For me there is nothing worse than a snatch that smells kinda like fish.  Some women just have this odor and it's a real turn off for me.  I realize odors may also depend upon the time of the monthly cycle, but seriously, I just hate that smell.  I can even pick it up sometimes on women in a public place and it just about makes me wretch.

Keeping in mind we males are visual animals, a pussy that is just nasty in appearance is also obviously a big turn off.  Large malformed labia minor are a turn off for me.

Now to answer the affirmative, IMHO, a pussy that is pink, well proportioned between labia majora and minora is attractive.  Also it should smell well - not of fish or urine - and if it has that phermonal smell of freshly tanned leather - well that's just the icing on the cake.  I remember a post here a while ago about a guy who saw a woman and he just couldn't get her odor out of his nose for a couple of days.  I'm wondering if I saw the same lady, because I've experienced the same.  Lastly, feel - a tight pussy is just the best thing.

So, my 0.02 FWIW

BS

that early in life, most of us have a preconceived image of what a pussy is supposed to look like, and that they're all pretty much the same. I started this rather late in life, when I was 54, and I think I had that image etched in my brain, having had a very vanilla sex life to that point. I love being up close and personal with a woman's pussy, and never realized how much different one woman's can be from another's. I will have that exact, "damn, this pussy is good", reaction for the simple fact that they are so much different. I may not express it quite that way, or may not express it at all, but that reaction is there. I may think, "damn, I never saw one that looked quite like this before".

For me, I don't think that there is any one thing about a pussy that gives me that reaction. I think it's the splendid difference and the way that they can be so unique.

In my opinion it all comes down to pc(pussy control).  My friend with benifits can bring me to a climax without moving, using nothing but her vaginal(kagel) muscles.  She is 42 and can make her pussy feel like that of an 18 yo.  Many women spend time stregthening these muscles as it has been shown to lead to more intense orgasms for her(and him). As a hobbyist i have been with milfs that feel much tighter then some ladies 10 years younger w/o kids.  But the lady that has had kids was probably told to do these exercises by her OB following pregnancy.  These exercises can be done anywhere: standing in line, sitting on the bus, listening to a lecture. pretty much any where all you have too do is bear down like you want to stop the flow of urine.  Do it 10x when you think about it several times a day. These exercises are medically proven to increase female orgasm, increase pc (so you can hug us in that special way)yea!!,  and decrease the incidence of incotinence as one grows older.

When a young lad, my first smell of a kitty was wonderful. Strong sweet odor and taste. I was hooked. Only a few women I've been with matched that since. Can't wait to be with the next match!

Best pussy is always the one I am in at the time! LOL! Jokes aside, if I really think about it most are really the same. It is connection that I have with the woman that makes the difference. However, I am also a slave to what I call the "next one is the best rule". I see a woman walking down the street with some attractive attribute that is sexy and I say to myself, "Now that's some good pussy!" Next thing you know I am on the hunt and I end up getting it only for it to fall into the "regular" category. Then I see another woman ... cycle repeats! I must have brain damage!

WOW, what a post.  I like a kitty that is smooth, has nice labia pink or dark red is ok. Wet with a great feminine taste. A hard clitoris with a "strong hood" makes it great.

I also do not concentrate on anatomy.  A kitty is like a flower.  No two are alike.  But I know the girls I like, and that is how their kitties are. I like the girls, so I like their kitties.

I agree with batman's  (and others) response to a certain extent; they all have their beautiful aspects. But, my darling Brooke, there are exceptions; hence the topic of this thread.
ie: I was with a beautiful, black SP (I'm white) a few days ago and her pussy was the perfect shade of pink (it screamed to me, 'I'm healthy, young and tasty; lick me til she screams!!'). The contrast of her 'pink' set against her flawless, black skin 'sent my head arealin' upon first view (pictures). Real life encouter was.......I have no words, honestly! That, to me, is the simple answer to your question; personal preference.

now we vagina whisperers. I can only imagine what one would say to a vagina, besides here kitty kitty kitty.

now with a horse your whispering calms them down but when whispering to vaginas--funny how both can buck like crazy you want them to buck like crazy. They're both fun to ride.