Been chatting with a late 30s Asian prospect. After several weeks I was surprised that she was OK with straight to BCD fun. But at what cost. She wouldn't throw out a number so I said 400. After a few day she said how about 600 because Christmas is coming. (Huh? I don't have Christmas? Lol). So I countered 400 for 2 meetings BCD, assuming we click. Wat will be here reply? Yes, no or no reply? I don't know yet.
I'm not sure how offering her the same amount for two sessions will be seen as offering her more. Her counteroffer made it clear that she won't accept 400.
Why didn't you offer to "meet in the middle" at 500? That is what I would do IF I thought she was worth it. Almost every time I make the "meet in the middle" offer it is accepted. Or at least offer 400 PLUS you will buy her a nice Xmas present (like a gift card, or jewelry, or something she needs). The idea is to increase your offer to a level she will accept or just pass and walk away if you are not comfortable going over 400.
Why would I pay more than I like to for an unknown experience. She saud she wants more money for Christmas. I offered her a way to make more than she wants. Meeting in the middle works for me if the lady throws out her ask first. She didn't so I basically threw in a wild card. I really don't care much either way. If I see her at 400 and she sucks I'm done with her. She really isn't hot enough for 500 or more.
Like Herb said. She through out a number expecting you to meet in the middle somewhere. So 500 per date.
Also, keep in mind she is probably not just talking to you. So how much is her pussy worth? Whatever the highest bidder will pay for it. So, if you said 400 only and another guy went up to 500. You will not hear from her unless that doesn't happen, he's creepy or they end up only seeing each other once or twice.
Always good to have an anchor.. That sets the baseline.. If she wasn't putting a number out, you should have been forceful and anchored with $400. Also why are you talking to someone for several weeks without broaching the topic of money. This is something I talk about in first few minutes of the conversation.. If we are not on the same page, then we have wasted couple of weeks doing what? Being pen pals? lol
I am in my early 40s and about 20+ yrs away from being a "senior". I am not at all against being social or chit-chatting. In fact social aspect of the SB /SD relationships is what attracted me to this form of companionship - as opposed to strictly P4P which had gotten very transactional.
That being said, I have learned through experience that best not to chit-chat too much in the beginning. The whole goal should be trying to schedule first M&G with the prospect. Girls who just want to chat and be social are sometimes unsure of what they are getting into. They can talk a good game, but when push comes to shove they get cold feet. Once you have established a relationship, you can be social all you want.
If you want to join a social club, there are definitely other opportunities out there on Meet Up website(s).
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