She talked a great game. When she arrived she was obviously a semi pro. Wanted the money up front. Then no kissing. After daty which was like herding cats I asked for a bj. She wanted a cover. I just said this isnt working and off she went. Total waste. The pitfalls of SB world.
If so, you made a mistake. If you want a pro, hire a pro. If she wants to pretend to be a SB, insist that she behaves like one. You'll give her the gift when she leaves. At least that way if it isn't working you haven't given her the full fee upfront.
I disagree completely, your experience was more like "the pitfalls of the unreviewed hooker world"
I agree completely with Sweetman, if you are going to play in the SB world, you need to play by the SB rules and one of those rules is that "we make the rules" not the SB's. If you were dumb enough to pay up front, that's your bad. Hookers get paid up front, not SB's, but you don't see hookers without reviews. You're a grown ass man who I assume has seen hundred of hookers, I you let some girl with decades less experience as you play you, that's on you. Sometimes you sound like a REALLY slow learner. I hate to sound unsympathetic, but you have been doing this way to long to be making newbie mistakes like this. If you had simply shown some balls and told her that you would pay her AFTER you were happy your story here would have been much different.
and it's a skill that seems to be VERY hard for most guys to learn and that is how to say NO!!!!!
Guys have been saying "yes" to all sorts of outrageous things that women ask/demand that they do for so long it's almost impossible to teach them how to stand up for themselves when pussy is dangled in front of them, but if you can learn how to say that one little word, and not only say it, but meant it and stick to your guns, your days of complaining about getting ripped off will end rather quickly. It's not natural for a guy to say no to pussy, but once you learn how, it's an invaluable skill. I learned how to say no in Costa Rica many years ago, and it wasn't really that hard a lesson down there. All you have to do is fuck four or five different women every day for several days on end and you will flat out laugh your ass off when a woman asks you to do something stupid in order to get into her pants. I know it's a lot tougher to do when you haven't been laid for a few days, but if you can learn to stick to your guns, no POT SB or hooker, or even civvie girl for that matter is ever going to be able to take advantage of you again.
Sweetman. But what if she wants the fee upfront and you tell her everything you just said in your post, are you then prepared to just leave this hottie with blue balls?? Because, then she might counter with the trust issue B.S. I dunno man, do many of the SB'S you've had agree to the cash after intimacy? ??
One was a cash-and-dash scammer. The other gave me 45 minutes of mediocre sex with a limited menu. As hard as it is to do, I strongly recommend ending the date immediately and asking her to leave. Tell her that's not the norm and you are uncomfortable continuing.
I agree but there arent really any norms in the sugarbowl. I booted her but 20 minutes too late and lighter in the wallet. I should have grabbed her purse and extracted some donation. Lol
POT SB's are not "pro's" per se, but they are still expecting to get paid, the same can be said for strippers too, but the cocktail waitress you pick up at the bar, the woman you pick up in the supermarket, or your golfing buddy's cousins you meet at a party would all be considered civvies, unless of course at some point you find proof to the contrary. lol
In a word, YES, nearly all of my SBs have agreed to cash after our date. Some were college girls I met first for a coffee date, some were young women with professional careers, some wanted to meet BCD first and get intimate with zero preamble, but none of them asked for the cash upfront! The few that did were actually pro escorts using the SA website. Paying upfront VS After the fun happens is one of the defining differences between a pro escort and a SB.
As for the blueballs issue, I like to think I'd walk away if the vibe was bad. Can't say I've ever actually done it though. I've dodged a few bullets with some BSC women who, thank goodness, I never got BCD with! And I've had a few who were not as pretty as I had hoped, but wtf, I went for it, no regrets, but did not repeat.
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