Married male who is very bi-curious and getting tired of role play with spouse,toys ect., would like some advice on how I should go about exploring more.
Thinking of escort because I am having trouble finding sometime partner on my own.
Any help?

Well then, jhp708,
Why don't you just get together with a male escort and see how you feel? There are loads of ads in gay magazines, etc. You can certainly have your pick, although I'm sure you know you won't find him on TER...

Good luck,
the Love Goddess

Why don't you look into a Tranny... I personally have never been with one, but I have read some of their ads. Some seem to cater to "beginners". It might answer your curiosity. You could figure out a few thinks and not have to worry about your wife finding out.