While sifting through the sugar bowl is still more satisfying than any other arrangement I've indulged in, I have noticed a couple of nasty little patterns that are beginning to get under my skin. Wondering how many of you have dealt with this, and if so, how so:
I've now had the pleasure of connecting with several very willing and able sweet young things. But it seems as if after each encounter there emerges a catch. Just recently, almost like clockwork, after a great night (or afternoon) in the arms of someone young enough to be my daughter (not that there's anything wrong with that lol) here are the follow-ups:
1. 'I'd like to take my kids to the amusement park. Do you think that's a good idea?' to which I say sure and then she tells me that the tickets are $50 each and how expensive they are and that she can't afford it to which she got 'gee, that's too bad'... I won't delete only because she was the best fuck I have ever had
2. Another asked if I could uber her somewhere as her account is low... delete
3. Another asked if I could order her some food to be delivered as she is out of cash... delete
4. A college cutie sent me a video that was of her playing with some toy for which I thanked her, and then to which she asked if I would send her a gift card for sending me the video... delete
5. A young mom of about 21 told me that her daughter has this really bad illness for which she needs meds, and her insurance doesn't cover it. I felt cold but i told her that's what family is for... delete
and so I am wondering if as long as I am in the bowl, that this is just a foreseeable, yet unforeseen, obstacle that leads to more one time visits than long sugary relationships as I just feel the longer I see someone these side issues will complicate things way more than I can stand. The good news is that it seems as if there is an unlimited supply of POT SBs but it is beginning to feel like one and done is the best way to preserve my sanity.
