any tips to prolong would be heplful

That is a provider trained in teaching how to become aware of your body and practice exercises that delay ejaculation, while allowing for multiple orgasms. (The two are not synonymous.)

Below I linked to a site that has a lot of information about tantra and also has listings of tantrikas (goddesses) in various cities.

Also, you might try this exercise on your own which I used to great advantage.

Lie down and start to masturbate, but as you approach the point of no return, stop and focus on your breathing and nothing more until your erection starts to abate.  Then slowly start up again and repeat this as many times as you are able.  You will become aware of the feeling you have as you approach ejaculation and be able to master it to the point that you can regularly control it.

This is very similar to the exercise most tantrikas follow.

Best wishes on this, and let us know how it goes.

Try an anti-depressant: Zoloft 50mg 8 hours prior.
Definitely delays ejaculation, you will feel like a pron star!
Con: usually I'm good for 3 SOG, with the Zoloft just 1, maybe 2 with a very skilled provider.
My recipe: Zoloft 8 hours and blue pill 30 min before meeting = fun times ahead!

i wish that was the solution Molly.

See this link...fun pics and sensible advice.