LG,

Why is it qualitatively and quantitatively more enjoyable for the hobbyist (I'm hoping I speak for most) to witness his provider swallow the big splooge (as you would put it) rather than spit it out?

Is this tantamount - on the psychological level - to ultimate acceptance - or more of just an erotic pleasure?

MSH

Utlimate acceptance, the unspoken "You re so sexy I want ALL of you"--plus, the subtle motions of the tongue and throat during swallowing are sensuous, erotic and VERY carnal....(for me, anyway!)

there was a joke that really made an impact on me.

Q: What is the difference between "Like" and "Love"?

A: Spit versus Swallow.

I guess it just got ingrained and stuck at least for me.

Psychologically, the act of spitting is a type of rejection, so that is not all that pleasant to watch.

However, when a provider swallows, it prolongs the nice sensation and you can sometimes feel the throat close around your cock and that feels so nice and says "I love you." so nice and loud.

Afterwards she looks up with a nice big smile as if to say, "That was so nice."

It just makes me want to cry for joy.

Good question, MeSoooHorny,

The answer depends on your psychological orientation. If we look at the issue from a psychoanalytic viewpoint, the act of spitting is indeed a rejection, whereas oral incorporation is viewed as symbolic acceptance/feeding/nurturing.

And just purely from an aesthetic viewpoint - who likes to watch someone spit? It looks much tastier and nicer to ingest - preferably followed by a big female Cheshire grin and a satisfied sigh.

As to Eros, it's in the eyes of the beholder. But if we ran a general poll out there, I bet a majority of men would feel it was way sexier and much more yielding, erotically speaking, if their lust object took in all the fruits of their labor.

Spoo works for me too
the Love Goddess

Oh this topic make Me Soooooo Horney

I mean...why do women not swallow the big splooge...does it taste bad - or is it just the act?

For me, and I've only had one do the "Big Gulp" for me - it's the total experience - psychologically and erotically.  In fact, I find myself deliberately seeking out a local provider just because her reviews openly say "she swallows".

I can hardly wait.

Thanks, LG

...that I am adding some nutritive factors to enhance the luster and bounce to the hair-doo too...

LOL....LOL...

In reverse order of handling this with care:

-  She spits in a napkin or other receptacle right in your presence while showing obvious outward signs that she just completed the most gross act on the face of the planet.

-  She bolts from the bedroom to the bathroom setting near Olympian speed records and presents you with a symphonic melody unlike any other.

-  She looks you right in the eye and manages a sexy, dribbleless grin that makes you sigh.  She slowly gets up from the bed and saunters to the bathroom making sure her exit leaves you with a lovely vision of her gorgeous ass sashaying across the room.  She gently shuts the door, turns on the faucet and you just lie back and contemplate the wonders of the world.

When she gulps the gue,she gets on your must see again list!If she rubs half the gue on her face and dribbles the outher half out the corners of her mouth,then says that was a huge load you gave me and it tasted great!You make your next apt. on the spot,and she gets put on your ATF list!!!!When she takes care of the gue she takes care of you!Tip her for the great service.....

It's not the spitting or swallowing for me; it's whether I'm 'accepted' or not. As another poster said, spitting can be done in a way that lets me know I'm not being rejected.

This is my second try at a response....To me, performing fellatio is THE most intimate act a woman can do for a man.  So, the act of allowing him to cum in her mouth, then swallow is all about total acceptance of him.  There is just something about it...

One provider I saw even made a joke about spitting (and she was very graceful about it): I'm a catcher, not a keeper (she said), as she sauntered back from the bathroom.

I think it's also about having the woman in a total place of giving me what I want, without any pressure to give her anything.  Of course, frequently a good bj will lead me to spend plenty of time and energy returning the favor.

Question: some women seem to really get turned on during a bj...why is that?

It  is ok to fullfill the taste of the fruit but if the fruit is bitter and has a rotten smell then there is  no way  one should have to encounter that bitter fruit. It's like going into the market and picking up that rotten peach you don't know what that nectar is going to taste like. If you are kosher in what you eat and you feed your self the proper food then there should not be a problem. Many have been to look good on the outside,but in the inside we never know what that skin holds. Better be safe than sorry.

*whew*...if you have a recommendation on anyone who performs #3 on your list...PLEASE pm me!

I don't like CIM so I'll never have the risk of rejection.

By the way, with the same line of logic, isn't cumming inside a bag and then flushed down the toilet a form of rejection?

Perhaps, BBrain,

Gordon Gallup, a researcher at the University of Albany, became a science celeb overnight, when the results of his study on semen as having antidepressant properties hit the media. The study showed that women who had condomless sex had less depression than those who were forced to watch the precious fluid 'end up inside a bag and then get flushed down the toilet' .

He recruited 293 undergraduate females from the Albany campus to take part in his study. The women answered questions about their sex lives, including frequency of sex, how long it had been since their last encounter, and what type of birth control they used. They also took a 20-question test to rate their level of depression. Called the Beck Depression Inventory, it's one of the standard questionnaires researchers use.

The women who rejected condoms were significantly happier than those using them and those having no sex at all. What's more, those who had been getting regular injections of semen from their boyfriends felt worse the longer it had been since they stopped having sex. The same was not true of women who used condoms.

Personally, I can attest to the joys of ingesting sperm on a regular basis, LOL. *I'm making a MAD magazine Alfred E Neuman-face here*. And yes, I would feel tremendously rejected if all of a sudden, my male partner would make a withholding move and demonstratively ejaculate anywhere else except where it was supposed to go the first place!

Now, the article was not necessarily about the ingestion of sperm. But when Gallup was questioned, the good sport that he is, he valiantly posited that the same might be true for receiving it the oral way.

Now what do other gals say
the Love Goddess

...one could question which came first - the goo or the gobble?  That is, (and I haven't read the article yet) is goo rejection the cause or the effect?

Now having said that, I personally can attest to the effect the goo has on female growth.  I personally have witnessed the broadening of the pelvis with the onset of sexual activity.  And certainly, gobbling the goo must also have it's nutritional benefits....shiny hair, hard nails, smooth skin (lol...)

MSH

but I can't help but wonder if the base personality of a gal who would bareback would be more happy by her very nature.    This is certainly not to detract from the 'chemical' benefits of semen injected into any part of the female body, just another possibility.    From what I can gather, the human body is nothing more than an incredibly complex 'chemical factory', and the mind (mood, personality, etc.) is the result of an ongoing chemical reaction. Though medical science has come a LONG way, I really don't think we know as much as a grain of sand on the beach yet.      Since part the human mind is designed for recreational sex,(well, some of us anyway, lol) it would stand to reason that there's more to this 'chemical interaction' stuff that we know.

Got any more?

eom

We have had some threads on semen and flavor, MeSoooHorny,

Having ingested much of the substance throughout my sexually active years, I can personally attest  that there are many fluids that taste way better than ejaculate.

Please believe me on this one: if sperm tasted like chocolate milk, Chateau Latour, or even sugary soda for that matter, I think women would "hit the spermpipe" in record numbers.

Now, there is some semen, in my humble senescent opinion, that tastes a little sweeter than others. Most likely, this depends on the ejaculator's diet, general health, etc.

Having disclosed all that, however, I must say that chomping on the male salami and swallowing the spoo [egads, what childish satisfaction in writing this word!] confers a certain psychological empowerment upon many women. There is a very powerful symbolic exchange when one partner puts his penis, vulnerable and tender, into a potential object of aggression, i.e. the mouth with all its sharp teeth. The act of swallowing also shows some guts - I mean, if it's not that great-tasting, and a woman hops to the task regardless - isn't that a measure of being "a woman's woman?" A powerful, goddess-like sexual warrior who can swallow the most slippery, gooey, sometimes salty, sometimes bitter fluid?!?

I say yes!
the Love Goddess

..there's all kindsa good stuff for the ladies in the goo.  I previously remarked about how I personally can attest to widening of the pelvis with the onsent of sexual activity.

Another example.  I'll never forget this gal I knew in school.  She was the scholarly type, you know, if she could have worn a plastic pen guard in her front pocket, she would've.  She was incredibly boring.  Well, she found a love interest and watching her...well it was like a flower blossoming.  You could tell her BF was hittin' it.  She went from an "A" cup to a "D" cup in about 60 days.

So guys, just keep thinkin'...there's good stuff in the goo for the gals.  If they don't want it, remind them of the benefits...LOL...

TBS

Are there any health reasons for her to do so?

I would guess stomach acid or digestive juices would quickly demolish most nasty germs. And 30 seconds of Listerine, swished and gargled, would protect the throat.

Do ladies really have to worry about swallowing, rather than spitting?

LG, you sure seem to have survived a lot of it just fine! Thanks for sharing that with us. Great thread.

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BG,

I suspect it may have to do more with the aesthetic than anything...taste, consistency.  I've read some places that the goo doesn't necessarily always taste that good...and is significantly impacted by diet.  For example, a diet rich in broccoli (sp?) apparently makes the goo taste really bad.  Mind you, this is not by personal experience (g)....

As regards 30 seconds of listerine...wouldn't be so sure about that.  I wouldn't bet that would kill the nasty Neisseria (gonorrhea) bacterium...

MSH

if i spit (which i hate doing btw), it's for health reasons. many sexually transmitted infections are commonly transmitted through oral sex (syphillis, gonorrhea, etc.), and although it has not yet been medically proven that HIV can be spread in that way, why take the risk?

honestly i would much rather swallow...it's more natural for me, and not as awkward. also i tend to get carried away in the moment, and knowing that i have to prevent myself from swallowing kinda takes away from that. but to make it as pleasant as possible for the man, i'll either quickly spit when he's not looking, or i'll make it a part of the experience by opening my mouth wide and just letting it dribble down...that appeals to those who like us nasty little girls.

I was sure that was an April's Fool Day prank.

It seems to me that someone posted that link on the GD board about a year ago and the usual killjoys debunked it as a hoax, although I wasn't able to locate it using the search feature.

Does anyone else remember that?

If it is on the level, then we need to start funding a public media blitz about it.

Here's the reference below. It was published in Archives of Sexual Behavior, a very respected journal.

Gallup, G. G., Jr., Burch, R. L., & Platek, S. M.  (2002). Does semen function as an antidepressant?  Archives of Sexual Behavior, 31, 289-293.

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some nice pictures on the site, but I can't find their rates.  

Interesting.  Well, I shall hopefully have more perspective on this topic in the not so distant future!!

My experience has been that women don't swirl the goo around too much, they just consume it as it comes out.  And, if that is the case, then knowing that certain parts of the taste buds lie in various areas of the tongue, then the spoo may not necessarily taste too bad.

Well, I must say, I hope most women wish to receive the psychological empowerment from swallowing the spoo, because I for one believe there is nothing more erotic than a woman gobblin' the goo.

Cheers,

MSH