I guess I've been lucky in that my SBs have all been affectionate via text as well as irl. We don't text frequently, that's part of the agreement, to NOT blowup each other's phones. But when we do there's lot of "miss you daddy" , "luv u" and heart emojis. It's nice and it's reassuring. Maybe you could tal;k to her about it, see what she says.
I did but I just think she is that type of person. She just does not like to text much. I will bring it up again.
When you are not together, she has her life. She's not your girlfriend. But when you are together she sets that time to be all about you and her. Where you get to share that time and no one else matters.
If you want the communication between dates, tell her that. And tell her if she wants the consistency she's already enjoying this will make you more likely to be with her long term. She sounds like she wants stability which you provide. Biweekly dates with an allowance. Let it comfort her that you want it from her too and this is all she has to do to get it.
Wish I could offer a definitive answer, but honestly if anyone would make a list of five strange SB behaviors, this would be high on the list.
believe, it or not, are not constantly plugged in to their devices, and still use technology like people used to use it in the 90s. Or she just wants to compartmentalize and keep her warm and fuzzy side for actual meet ups. If you ask me to wager money, i am more willing to go w/ the latter.
I've had mixed results with SB's being decent at texting between dates. Most are poor at it, overall. I like to text once every 2-3 days between dates. Nothing extensive, just a 'Thinking of you' or 'Can't wait to see you, Daddy!' Always nice to know we are thinking of one another when not together. I agree with Netnoy, she's not your GF and often she wants to keep a distance/separation between her 'real life' and her 'sugar life.'
What's annoying is when you are trying to make plans and they take forever to coordinate. Some of these gals also have a lot of trouble keeping their shit together and often times this is reflected in erratic communication skills. I've found in a very generalized sense that the hotter the girl the poorer the communication. I suppose this is a supply and demand issue. I've found less attractive or older SB's have to try harder and are more appreciative than the young hotties.
This is why, at least for myself, a mixture of ladies of various ages/hotness is the ideal solution to annoying SB behavior.
What one lacks the other provides and vice versa.
I know that this is the SB board. But, I too have had experience in the escort world with drastic differences in tone between electronic communication and in person communication.
With a provider that I've seen numerous times, I've had warm, caring, sympathetic, even nurturing communication in person. And yet, in electronic communication the tone is frequently cold, defensive, and even accusatory, despite my every effort to be kind and deferential in my electronic communication.
I think the 'she's not your girlfriend' premise explains some of that. But, I sometimes feel that there's an element of wanting to maintain a power dynamic. A desire to keep the guy on his toes. The girl wants to reinforce the notion that the relationship is transactional.
Actually, I think you nailed it!
I will say that I tend to be able to occupy and satisfy the 9's+ so I do expect they will eventually be able to land a BF half my age but it doesn't keep me from expecting attentive and respectful communications.
