While I'm seeking advice, let me throw this out as well. Is there a way to make seconds more possible. Abstain for awhile, drink plenty of fluids or what ? I've been a one pop guy for awhile now, ah for the good ole days.

You might be more fully satisfied after slowly building up to one terrific release than you'd be from 2 or 3 routine cums.

Sex isn't a sports contest. No one's keeping score, unless you choose to.

You're right, but I get envious when I read all those reviews and those guys talking about 2 and 3 pops. I guess maybe I feel cheated when I can only go once and maybe not even doing enough for my partner.

Hmmm, Brad45M,

If we are talking about "not even doing enough for my partner," I am assuming this is in your civvie relationship, and not with a provider. If it's a professional you're thinking of, I can promise you she'll be very happy with just one round. No need to prove or overcompensate your prowess with a pro - she will be much more impressed if you treat her with kindness and respect outside of the bedroom.

Don't believe everything you read in the reviews,
the Love Goddess

I have to once again agree with the Love Goddess on this one.  When the disclaimers state that the reviews are purely fictional and for "entertainmant purposes only", that's not far from the truth.

I usually get to the second pop within a two hour session, but the last time, even though the mind was willing, the body said "nothing doing."

The reason: I only had about four hours of rest as a result of a faulty alarm clock that wouldn't shut off.  As a result, my body was just to out of it to continue.

And really don't care if I do or not, though I always wondered what it'd be like.    To me, it isn't the quanity that matters so much as the quality. Sometimes I don't get off at all, but I enjoy the close intimacy with a pretty gal enough that it doesn't matter. I guess it comes down to what your goals really are, and even more importantly, are they realistic?

With the wrong provider somtimes I cant even get one pop off without doing it my self!That said I have had great providers will not let me out the door without the second pop.Seams like a chalange to them.These are gals that get my revisit.Mature providers seam to care about giving a better performince.

The second pop is over rated. For me its a bit uncomfortable, too much like work.
Get enough rest, have fun and do what works for YOU. Like LG stated, "Don't believe everything you read in the reviews".

Hey Brad,

I have to agree with some of these guys and LG.  I believe A LOT of these guys are "legends in their own mind". LOL.  

My personal opinion is that more than half of the "reviews" out there are embellished by the author.  Maybe they should be writing for Penthouse Forum as their imaginations get the best of them.

It would be interesting to hear from the ladies on this one.

I do know of one provider (that I see on a regular basis) that has asked some of her reviewers to "edit" their posts due to their embelishments ( i.e CIM,COF,and CUMMING a 2nd time).  They might try for a "2nd pop", BUT are UNSUCCESSFUL!

If I pop once and keep going for quite awhile after, it's all good - we're both happy - that's the norm. But I have heard men can have muliples, but always thought that was bragging...

can determine this - if it is in the cards, it will be dealt.  I prefer quality myself, but have to admit in recent session with a newer massage provider, she got me off 3 times in 90 minutes, not a record, but her talents were at a 10 level - and the old boy was up to the task that day.