I think I've overdone it on building my rotation.  Although my motto has always been, anything worth doing is worth overdoing. Still, Saturday night I had a wonderful date with SB-A.  Then Sunday had an equally awesome date with SB-B.  This morning, Monday, I get a txt from SB-C asking for a date next Monday.  And SB-D txts me wanting a date very soon.  Just now SB-A txted me asking for another date tomorrow. SB-E borrowed 50 from me a few days ago and wants to make it up to me real soon. SB-F asked me to text her this week for another date. I'm really overdue to revisit SBs-G and H and I'm eager to visit SB-I again soon. That's 9! I can't possibly handle 9 girls in my rotation. Who do they think I am, GaGambler?  Holy crap, what a problem to have.  

I always figured I should continue to keep the pipeline flowing since new SBs come online while old ones fade away.  But none have been fading at all lately, and a couple who did fade have returned,  hence my current dilemma.

I'm wondering, what's your ideal frequency of Sugar Dating?  In the past I've been satisfied with one date every other week or so.  Recently I've stepped that up to one a week, but multiple dates every week is just too much of a very good thing.  I face the very real possibility of getting burned out!  Should I learn to pace myself or just go for it?

To pharaphrase Oscar Wilde:   The saddest thing in life is when luxury becomes commonplace.

 

I once did up to twice in a week, but stick to once a week.

I find 5-6 is ideal. I manage them by spacing them out. If I see SB-A on Monday, I schedule her the follow week for later the following week, say, Friday or Saturday. Usually a couple of them are less frequent than weekly. If I need a break, I tell a couple of them that I’m out of town for a week or two.

Although I've never been in a situation THAT painful. I have a rotation that I like, but, they're all an hour drive from my small town to the nearby state university town. I'm trying to add a local woman, but this seems difficult. As for frequency, I'm married, and I keep it down to about 2-3 times a month, mainly to stay way UTR, but I've been known to bing when DW is out of town.

I think once a week is about the most I could manage consistently, and I'm at least as opportunity limited as dollar limited.

I'd say pace yourself, and give plausible reasons to keep the women on the rotation, but don't overdo, or I think you'll burn out.

I've gotten good advice from a local gent who is about 7 years older than me (I'm 63) and I have managed to relax a bit about the transient ups and downs, because over a few years, this is all going to average out.

You may just be getting too good at this!

I like 3 or 4 semi active.

It's oftentimes "  feast or famine " here for me, so after a slow spell in finding new SB's sometimes I get virtually deluged with new ones which does create scheduling challenges.
The more serious complication for me is becoming somewhat bored after a few dates with most of my SB's, even the really good ones so I'm always searching for new talent....and despite the ego boost from a current SB asking me for more dates, after a bit it becomes annoying and a burden to have to keep putting them off
In addition, very few SB's can fully match the skills in sex AND seduction compared to Pro Escorts so I'm always on the lookout for HIGH QUALITY touring pros cumming to my area also.
It's a TOUGH job ....but somebody has to do it 😋

...because it sounds like a perfect spot to fish.

As I mentioned in an earlier reply to a post about the % of women on SA, the market here has IMPROVED DRAMATICALLY  in the past few yrs. 8 yrs ago it was a desert waste land here for SB's and often I would drive to FLL, MIA or TPA chasing them....now we have an over abundance !
My guess is that Sugar Dating is becoming MUCH more common in the general population and we're all benefiting from that trend 😋

Currently have 3 SB's in the rotation and if I had more time, would add to the roster.  As a married man, I can only enjoy the fruits of the SB about once a week.  SB#1 is a smoking hot, super fit, certified sex-fiend.  Bonus points as a graduate from one of the top universities in the country.  I see her every other week.  SB#2 is all passion but older and less fit than SB#1.  She wants more time.  SB#3 has a great body and phenomenal skillz, but doesn't drive and is always late.  Have 2 potentials trying to get time and a couple more in the email/texting phase.

Life is really good.

I agree completely and this is a conversation I was just having with another SD/Hobbyist in my area.  I think all the college girls and other young women have heard about Sugar Dating.  Usually when I ask them how they learned about it they tell me a friend of their's tried it and told them about it.  So the number of contacts and networking takes off by leaps and bounds at a certain point.  I suspect that the same percentage of women who have heard about Sugar Dating are actually trying it as before.  But many more have heard of it, so the talent pool seems much bigger.

It certainly seems like the fishing here has improved immensely. I prefer not to reveal my location, but I'll tell you it's a backwater low population state with a crummy economy.  It's a place you'd think would probably suck for Sugar Dating, but it's become excellent.  I like to think my immense charm and wit may have something to do with my success rate also, haha.

I don't know how you do it. I think even if I were single, I could only handle 3 or 4 serious babies.  I'd like to see my rotation at least once a week or I'd rather see pros.  Just don't think I could handle the scheduling or planning involved.  

As a married guy, I've decided to come down to one SB I see every chance I get because she's local and can host and we're currently infatuated with each other. I still have 3 backups I will see once every month or two because price/hotness/skill are better than the pros in my area although we don't really connect anymore. It would be a shame to end something with them though.

Yah, as another married guy, Good Lord, 9!? Although, my incredulity is mixed with a bit of envy! Something like 3 or 4 is ALL I can manage, and I have that, but somehow I just keep on looking anyway!

I've also just met a local SB who can host! And lives within 5 miles of my house! So, this may become the mainstay, with a few backups, just as you say. And I still can't believe this is happening in my little town, especially since the situation has improved so dramatically in just the past six months or so.

I've having a running conversation with a SB who says she is just "evaluating" this world, and is curious about what it's like etc. So far, that seems to be all she's interested in, but the convo is interesting, and when I asked her how she learned of SA, this is her exact response,

"I heard about SeekingArrangement from a talk show. I can’t remember which one exactly. The girls on there talked about how they would make a ton of money to help pay for college and I just had to find out more. " So, SA is out in the world, and at least some of the SBs are so calm about it that they'll go on TV and talk about it. Contrast this with the escort world! When you get this level of awareness and acceptance, something fundamental is changing....

So, I still don't understand the deluge of SBs, and more to the point, the seemingly very favorable SD/SB ratio, but I'll just enjoy it!

I know I'm going overboard right now, but this is a lifelong fantasy cum true and I'm gonna keep on keepin on as long as I can. The planning and scheduling really do take a lot of time and energy.  People sometimes ask me how's retirement going and what do you do with yourself?  If they only knew!   Last weekend I had dates with SBs A and B. I asked SB-I for a date tomorrow but she was busy so tomorrow I'll visit SB-F,  Monday is SB-A again and then Wednesday is SB-C.  I had a request from SB-D also, but had to say maybe next week, so I'll probably see her again soon.  As for the logistics, as many of you know, I meet my dates in my RV so there's fuel costs but no hotel costs or bookings to deal with and no worries about last minute cancellations.  My awesome wife allows me to bring my SBs home with me when she is off visiting her BF so that works sometimes, and one of my SBs is talking about hosting at her place so that may also become a possibility.  I seem to be able to afford this, so might as well go for it.  Lord only knows how many years I have left before I simply can't handle this level of activity and I damn well refuse to arrive there with regrets!

My head is spinning but my cock is hard