"Have you met many people on SA or had many arrangements?"

GA Gambler, what's the sales response?

IMO, the last thing you want to tell her is that you have banged 50+ women from the site, let alone that you are currently banging a rotation of 5-10 SB's.  

I always stick to vague terms like "a few" and "2 or 3 last year" (note: LAST year which implies none THIS year).  I want to imply that I am not in an arrangement now and I'm looking for one "special" person, although I never specifically promise exclusivity.  

Even though my join date is visible in my profile I've never been called out for this tactic. Then I move on to the boilerplate about what a good arrangement looks like for me: dinner/drinks, maybe shopping/movie/wine tasting, then my place for fun, etc.  No dollars mentioned here, just "help with her needs".  

Finally, I ask her what she see's as a good arrangement and focus her on questions about expectations with me, not with past penises & wallets.

I've had 2 that were ongoing. We are still friends.....I don't mention the 30 to 40 1 timers Ive been with.

Most were going out one time an we didn't click. One long term for about 9 months but no one now. I'm looking for the right one

but that only applies to the hooker world, not the SB world. lol

 
I have to go with the crowd on this one, I can't imagine telling an SB that I've seen several dozen SB's over the last year or so and that she will be part of a "rotation" of 4-5 favorites if she "makes the cut". lol

 
I usually say that I've spoken with several, met a few and just really haven't found what I am looking for "yet" then if she is 25 yrs or over I blame it on the fact that all the girls on SA are "too young" (I live in a college town) and If she is a college girl I'll compliment her on "something" and give her the idea that possibly she could be "the one" that I've been looking for all this time.

that up.  Usually with the younger ladies and generally with the subtext being "do you realize what this is about"? Even though I tell them in messages before we meet that I am looking for an INTIMATE, discreet, behind closed doors arrangement at first.  I don't ask for numbers of dates and not interested in theirs.  I do ask what their most memorable experience (good or bad) in the bowl.  LOL the answers here are hilarious!  $$$$$ per month allowance with trips all over the world.  With the younger one's, I tell them I don't usually see girls their age, but ladies in the range I would like are few and far between.  Then I compliment them on their looks, and how taken I am with how grounded and mature she seems for a girl her age.  They seem to like this.  Anyway, that's my thing.

I've met two nice ladies on S/A.  The arrangements are over, but we keep in touch and are friends.

Been on an off the SA site for 2 years now  
Met 2 really cool girls and a few one time girls - but got robbed off a girl on that site - so beware- lots of evil on that site😡
And now have learned ( the hard way) no money up front - lol
Best of luck to ya