For you guys that have 3 or 4 hour bcd dates do you find yourself getting "close" to these girls? Is it something you are looking for? I have to admit, it was something I was hoping would develop and we would move to not just BCD. What do you do for the other 3 hours and 53 minutes (LOL).
With some of them I start thinking about what I am going to do after they leave the very instant I bust a nut, with others I think about what we are going to do together. Not surprisingly I tend to have more fun with drunks than teetotalers.
DATY. FUCK. Pooltime with cocktails. Hopefully she has a tiny bikini and great ass to enjoy and have my neighbors asking wyd? Then back to my place. She is a horny drunk and more daty and kink.
My current fav is the only one I would say I have had a true emotional connection to and honestly, I'm a little scared because no good can come of it. If things ended with us, we'd both be hurt. For the time being, though, we get along great and the sex is just ridiculous, so all we can do is enjoy it.
Prior to this, the only reason sugar dates were longer than an hour was so I could recover and fuck again. I've gone so far as to kick one SB out after fucking her in the afternoon only to have a different SB come over later in the night after I had grabbed dinner with my guy friends. This was all because I couldn't stand eating with the girl from the afternoon. She was picky as fuck and would only put the phone down when she needed two hands for my cock. So yeah, I general, I avoid emotional attachment with these girls but you never know when it might just happen.
and also a second pop before time runs out, but I think that's more of an escort world thing.
In any case, I regularly spend long sessions with gals and the reason for that is that I do enjoy their company, especially conversation, and yes, we do get into the details of each others' lives, in most cases, anyways. Viewing movies and playing board or card games are other activities we often enjoy. I don't find myself falling for them in the sense that I have to be with them constantly, but rather just look forward to seeing them as friends with whom we share sex (for a fee, of course) and enjoy the uncomplicated nature of that.
Sorry, sorry, I just couldn't resist. Actually I really crave the emotional i timacy, it's what makes Sugar Dating special for me, and sets it apart from Hobbying. OK, some of the SBs I've dated are closed to an emotional relationship, but that's fine. Some of the best sex I've ever had. but a few are really sweet and want the emotional intimacy, want my thought s about their lives and their challenges, want to hear my stories and get my guidance. My lo gest i timate Sugar Arrangement lasted over a year and she meant so much to me that when she ended it I was really heartbroken. That's the risk you take. Yeah, I'm a big pussy too! As for what to do in the other 3 hours 59 minutes, sometimes I take my SB out to eat, sometimes we do some shopping, we sit around drinking wine, and after the sex is over I really love hanging out nude in bed, talking, touching cuddling, drinking more wine.etc.
Ok, it wasn't a non stop ten years, but it's been on and off for ten years. There is a 30 year age difference, I met her when she was 18 and I was 48, but by the time she was in her early twenties people I guess we started giving off the vibe of a married couple because that's how people started treating us. I know a lot of you won't even check into a hotel with your young SB in tow, but we stopped getting strange looks by the time she was 21-22 or so.
I haven't actually seen her in several months now as we live in different states, but she did mention wanting to pay me a visit a few weeks ago. Ironically although neither of us was ever "in love" with the other, her entire family (including her father who is younger than me) knows who I am and she has not only met my mother, but is still "facebook family" with her to this day.
The girls I have met in sugarland (and they are all girls - wow, in p4p anyone in their late 20s still seemed young, here they seem like the old, odd girl out) are not all about sex. They are not a business. They actually are in school lol. This is not a business for them. It's a way to get the money they need, but they are not simply fucking to survive - to paraphrase March MAdness, they are fucking to survive AND advance.
Thus, sugarland seems to me to be the land of the real GFE. They have been smart enough to actually carry on a real conversation with, and while they are not sexual pros, they are into it nonetheless. It's great combination for my tastes, and as we have gone along even for the short time I have been partaking, real life and an emotional connection does creep in. And that is fine - and as long as it's not one sided - it makes the experience even richer for me.
In Sugarland it seems like "most" of the SB's are actually in school. It's hard to argue that they are lying about being coeds when they ask you to pick them up at the dorm. lol
That is not to ignore the fact that there are also hookers in the Sugar World, but they are the minority not the rule.
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