Just my observation but I get treated waaaaaaaayyyyyyy better. at this rate, I'll never settle down! Seriously, even ex BF who now know about me willingly donate for my time, when before they couldn't even go get a frosty from wendy's and bring it back before it melted. Sigh, just things I think about.............

Love and Kisses

Dear ShiShiSugar,

I think you know the answer to that one...so I'll just make it very brief: because that which is desirable and in limited supply engenders behavior that will be reciprocated with that which is in short supply. That is, men may treat escorts "better" because they hope that by being on their best behavior, they will be provided with the best sexual experience possible - for which they have already made some type of sacrifice, i.e. spent their hard-earned money.

It's that old cost-benefit ratio again. With a girlfriend, they may feel that cost begins to exceed the benefit, in which case their behavior may change accordingly.

Social exchange theory again, I suppose
the Love Goddess

Asked and answered by LG  When your ex BF visits for a couple of hours for fun he will be on his best behavior. I bet he gets that frosty to you before it melts.  

Conflict about a frosty is the less than fun part of a civvie relationship which can be complex to say the least. Of course the intimacy of a civvie relationship has its own rewards when it is relatively healthy.

I find that it is a great pleasure to enjoy a few hours with a provider, each of us going out of our way to be out best for each other. It is a delightful fantasy. Relationships don't work that way. In a real relationship you eventually have to deal with dirtywork of one sort or another, with possessiveness, jealousy, emotional conflicts -, disagreements or differences in style regarding the nuts and bolts of living. things which arise when two people really get to know each other over time. A real relationship is not as glamorous as a the beautiful illusion shared by escort and client for a few hours at at time. I've always preferred the former, but I realize that I've missed something by avoiding the latter....  Gregory

Sheeeeit I would have got you a cold frosty! No, I would have got you two. One for you to enjoy, and the other one I would have poured all over you and then licked it off... Just sayin


Seriously, it's an epidemic in relationships - forgetting to do the things that got you there in the first place.

Best Wishes

Well lucky for me, the only men in my life are my suitors and I can buy my own frosty. It was just something I observed from an ex BF who is now a happy client(we joke about his previous frosty neglect all the timeand , Yes, I am that good!!!). I think that the most overlooked "perk" of this job is the boost of self confidence that comes from being self reliant. It's the luxury of being able to say, "I don't need you, but I want you". I love being a courtesan, I think it's the truest version of myself!

Can't wait to enjoy you all!
Shishi Sugar aka Simone

While I see a lot of truth in LG's post, my experience leads me more toward Gregory's view.

I have been with my SO for a long time. Early on, it was very much like my relationships with providers. Over time, my love for her has not diminished, but we have obviously gotten to know each other on a more and more intimate level and the there are times when the 50-inch hi-def relationship view looks more like an old 19-inch b&w.

I think that's the reality of longer-term relationships. It doesn't necessarily make them worse, just a little more challenging to make work and get the static cleared. I plan to be with my SO forever, knowing full well that every day will not be the perfection of a provider encounter. In my civvie life, part of the joy is in the effort required.

so I can't say that there is a real difference between the two. I will say that most contact that I have with providers is in the context of working through sexual fantasies that I create in my mind for each session.

Simple for me. The way my gf treats me it can't get any worse!

In LA, I have noticed that many of my adorable, sexy, charming & mostly single clients are soooo tired of the golddiggers in this city that when they are with me they can relax & be the Prince Charming I think most men WANT to be but they know that I'm simply appreciative & not hoping that this will continue for a long time or lead to an exclusive relationship or marriage.

I also agree with Shi, I love what I do & think I was pre-destined for this life

Brennan

recieve calls, emails and/or PMs asking:

did you forget my birthday?

what happened, I haven't heard from you for days?

who was that woman that answered your phone?


Bottom line is that I'm lazy. Dealing with an escort is (or should be) a pleasure whereas the other is a commitment.

Likewise I'm certain you already have your laundry list of replies to those who would want to "take you away from all this". LOL