.... is to start by reading the last several months, or even the last 2 years, of posts in this board.  You have written 46 reviews on TER and you would expect that TER members read them before asking you for advice on who to book in Minneapolis, right?  

 
Well there are hundreds of posts here with all of the info you need to get familiar with the sugar bowl.  Use various forms of keywords like negotiate, allowance, meet and greet M&G, scammer, BCD, POT, patience, message, text, rules, etc. And I daresay look for posts from the top 5 or 6 posters on this board as well.  

 
Once you have come up to speed on the basics, I (and I expect others) will be happy to help you with specific questions.  

 
Try the Sugar Bowl and you will find that...

 
Life is good

 
The Cat