We've all encountered girls suffering for the common malady called Golden Pussy Syndrome,  a chronic condition with usually poor prognoses and outcomes. My most severe case this year with a girl who first said "Send me $1000 so I know we have the same mindset." before we'd ever met.  She followed that up with "Hi love my p((p))m is 2000".  Needless to say I passed!  What unreasonable asks have you encountered?

I found a sweet 22-year-old local gal who shared some similar interests in performing arts.  I thought we vibed rather well and we set up a M&G so get some face time and see if there was mutual compatibility. The M&G went well, we both seemed to like each other, and she was into the submissive role play ideas I really like.  She had a car, a job with a flexible schedule, wasn't a drama queen - quite chill actually, and we aligned on testing, BB and respecting time spent apart.  Her allowance ask was on the high-end of my budget, but since everything else was in the green zone, I agreed.  I was especially happy at the thought of experimenting with her desire to use (or I think re-use for her) restraints and blindfolds on her (not on me, thank you).  She said she really got off on losing control and being dominated by someone she trusts.  

 
Yay me!  But...I fucked up.  

 
I had assumed that when we agreed on going BB that included finishing inside, both orally and vaginally. That turned out to be a poor assumption. I found out in the heat of the moment when I told her I was about to cum, and she JUMPED off me. I don't mean she gently slipped off and encouraged me to shoot all over her. I mean she probably cleared 6-8 inches of airspace over my body.  

 
That killed the moment for me, and I probably looked like a kicked puppy as I asked her what happened. She told me she could not let me cum inside - anything.  I thought she may have forgotten about my vasectomy, even though I had presented my zero sperm test results. Not wanting to lose the mood, I had her finish me with her mouth and hand when I was ready to go.  I mistakenly did not question it further at that time, chalking it up to 1st time sex nerves and figured she'd be cool at our next date.    

 
But she was NOT cool.  On our next date I was again ready, and she told me to pull out.  This time I asked her what she was worried about. I went on to remind her of our discussions and shared test results. She told me she was ok with all that, but if I wanted to cum inside her, I'd need to pay an additional $300 per date.  As I mentioned, I take most of the blame for this. During our negotiations I never actually explicitly said I expect to finish in her mouth or pussy when I wanted to.  Of course, she never brought it up either.  

 
GPS?  Yes, definitely.  Hooker mentality? Yes, though I saw no evidence that she was a pro. Did she negotiate in bad faith? Probably more like inexperience in Sugar negotiations or possibly I was the first SD that asked for raw BCD (She said I was only her 2nd SD).  

 
Ater that I let her know I'd be moving on, though I left the door open to her if she wanted to accommodate me for no additional allowance.  (Bridge left unburned, of course.)  

 
Lesson learned.  Now I make a point of specifically mentioning where I may want to finish.  Of course, I approach it lightly or with humor, but none the less, it's discussed and I get an acknowledgement.  

 
PS:  The wrist and leg cuffs combined with the blindfold were fun. Not life changing. Fun.  So at least I got that going me.  

 
Life is food

 
The Cat

She def should have told you ahead of time.  But often the SBs don't communicate that well and it's up to us to do the probing.  I always ask if she has any boundaries or restrictions that she'd like me to know about.  Usually the answer is no.  And also usually if she does have any boundaries like that she'll volunteer ahead of time, like no anal, or no kissing.  But it's very weird she didn't say no cumming inside.  I have the good fortune to currently be seeing 3 lovely SBs who are comfortable with BB, and they all are comfortable with me cumming inside.  But your story makes me remember to ask about boundaries in any future M&Gs, for sure!

About 2 years in I asked if she wanted to go to Hawaii or Costa Rica. I asked her whats her rate was. I was paying her 400pm. She said $5k. Turns out she had a no overnight no travel rule. She could have just told me that.  Would have saved me a few years with her.

I has a recent experience where we connected on the M&G, agreed on PPM, and set a second date.  From discussions it was clear she was an experienced SB.  She did mention that she had a kidney issue that was clearing up and she had been on antibiotics.  We had delayed the initial M&G due to is.  She said it wasn't an issue so we scheduled a 2nd date.  We went out to have some non-bcd fun and then came back to my place.  I had assumed that we were on the same page.  Back at my place, she suddenly says she can't do any BCD fun or at least she isn't taking her pants off due to the antibiotics she was on and that she wouldn't be clear for that until the next week.  UGH! Needless to say it was downhill from there and no third date.

It sounds like you did all your "due diligence" and had good reason to expect a fun 2nd date.  Too bad it went sideways.  All you can do is move on and hope for better luck next time.

Did she get a ppm for that date?

I've had the 'no finishing inside me' request happen way too many times. It's often a difficult thing to ask when you are first meeting for a M&G. I've found most of the gals I've met are not comfortable with me cumming inside of them. They always pull the 'Sperm throws my PH balance off and I get infections' card. I try to make it clear now in the M&G that finishing inside is a must but that will often be a deal breaker for her. It remains one of the many hurdles I've faced in this game and I imagine always will. Luckily I've found some keepers that are fine with it, but then it seems there are always other things that are a problem with them. There's always something. If it's not there at the beginning it will pop up soon enough. But I keep trying... hoping to find Miss Right SB. The search is getting pretty tiresome. Think I'm gonna take a break from it for awhile.    

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