Please help. A companion I have previously seen several times was getting herself off with a toy on her clit, and asked me to enter her.
While thrusting, she discarded the vibrator, and encircled  the base of my cock with her fist. At first, it was mildly enjoyable, but then became uncomfortably tight.
Obviously, I was unable to hilt her.
She did this in 3 positions, until I came with some discomfort.
WTF??
I am only a bit above avg in length.
I doubt that this was done to prevent the condom from slipping, as I had been with her on several prior occasions.
Did she think she was adding extra pleasure for me, or what?

I was in the heat of battle.
Each time I changed positions, I thought it would stop.
And, perhaps somehow it was helping her get off?

It's hard to say, but she might have been tender down there, and didn't want to be pounded.

Dear nuboy,

It is completely impossible to ascertain her motivations - we'd need to ask her for those.

But what you can do in the future is delineate some immediate boundaries by stating your discomfort as soon as someone else begins to take charge of your genitals.

The point here is that no one - and I mean no one - should grab your penis and do things to it without your explicit consent, no matter what the motives implied or expressed. In this case, you gave implicit consent by not questioning, withdrawing or refusing. Hence, she may have thought that she was doing you/her a big favor, with the result of an unpleasant experience for you. Not to be sexist but....had the shoe been on the other foot, you may have been chastised by other posters for going a bit over the top.

Next time, JUST SAY NO when it begins to hurt...and to think you PAID for this? Eeek!

Nuboy becomes big boy,
The Love Goddess

Occasionally some over enthusiastic energizer bunny will get a little carried away and give you a swift poke in the cervix... which can be HIGHLY unpleasant if the angle is just so... Cervixs are positioned slightly differently depending on where ladies are in their cycle etc... Hence why the other times you saw her evenything was kosher, but this last time she might have been hyper sensitive... Also- mish with the girls legs on your shoulders and some types of doggie can hit REALLY deep depending on individual anatomy and the exact angle of penetration etc...

Lord knows that I have occasionally suffered in silence out of politeness, but REALLY everyone has such a nicer time with a little bit of sweet suggestion... Or in your case, a sexy whisper in her ear of "Hon, please stop cutting off the blood supply to my brain!" Just kidding!

Either that , or her trying to keep me extra hard by becoming a human cock ring.

i had an unfortunate experience with a woman (allegedly and reputably a pro) who performed a maneuver like what happened to nuboy.

i objected and she replied that she was doing it under the impression that time was getting short and she wanted me to happen again.

needless to say.... i will not repeat.

"ow, what are you trying to do?"

My best guess is that she was trying to prevent deep penetration.
Shall I see her again and ask?

And say THIS- "Hi this is Nuboy. I have enjoyed the several sessions we've had together and I would like to see you again in the future... But I have a question- that last time we met up you did this thing with your hand that kind of hurt...  I was curious why you used that technique and was hoping that we could communicate better next time and do things a little differently..."

If you ask you in a discrete and respecful manner like this- you will mostly likely get your answer and based on that decide how to proceed...

Good idea, but there is a bit of a language barrier.
I am afraid that I will have to commit to a meeting so as to make myself understood.

so she can parse it out carefully?

Credit to cindygoldielocks.
My companion said I was too big [long] for her pussy, and it was better for her if she was able to choke off some length.
As I said originally, it was the same in multiple positions.
I imagine striking the cervix can be uncomfortable.
Thanks for all the input.
BTW, just for informational purposes, I am 7 1/8 inches erect, measured on the top, [which I believe to be a bit above normal length], and not especially thick.

-- Modified on 4/6/2009 3:44:49 PM

For all interested - some penile data from Ansell, makers of LifeStyle condoms...

Enjoy,
The Love Goddess

i can be content to be average....

Wikipedia (see Related Link) says:

"A study conducted by LifeStyles Condoms found an average of 14.9 cm (5.9 in) with a standard deviation of 2.1 cm (0.8 in) (measured by staff).[10] The purpose of this study was to ensure properly sized condoms were available. 401 college students volunteered to be measured during 2001 Spring Break in Cancún, Mexico, of which 300 gained an erection to be clinically measured (without pharmacological aid). The 300 effective measurements makes this study double the size of any prior study that uses medical staff to measure penis size[15] (but the sample is more representative of male American college students visiting Cancun than it is of the entire male American population.)"

...is performed.
One can get discrepancies depending on where the tape measure is placed [top vs. underside] on the penis.