The Erotic Highway

Mixed bag of issues here
herbtcat 6 Reviews 53 reads
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First, when reconnecting with a past SB I will generally give her the same allowance as in the past. I see it as a continuation of the original agreement and there is no need to renegotiate or even discuss - especially as you may inadvertently be negotiating against yourself. I.e.: "Since you ask, I need (old amt) plus $300)."

 
But as she already said something like "anything will help..." she's opened the door to accepting less than the old amount. This suggests she is desperate due to some unplanned needs (car repair, rent, legal fees/fines, etc.). However, if you are comfortable with the original amount, it would be kind of a dick move to short her just because you can.  

 
Next, is the bipolar crap.  I've been there and have vowed to never return. Ultimately it cost me orders of magnitude more cash, grief, and time than it was worth.  Maybe if you are sure this will be a one-time BCD, and you don't have better, more stable/less destructive options at hand... but adding more risk with no additional reward when it's not necessary seems ill advised.  Sometimes, an overabundance of pussy is not a good thing. But only sometimes. LOL  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

She had a bi polar reaction to me 5 years ago. J was shocked st her words. No contact since and she popped up on. SA today.  I sent her a hi how are you doing. She was super friendly  and wants to meet. I asked her what she wants her meet. She gave me a lust of very stupid things she had done recently and only told me....anything will help. I consider it a gift. Should I give her my offer in advance or should I surprise day of. Milf with a banging body and a good fuck (like a lot of bsc chicks) but I am only gonna do what I paid her 5 years ago. She is 5 years older and I  have 2 hotter SBs tgat are 10 years younger.

Only you know her and the risks. And you'd better be 100% certain she is on her meds.

I can say from personal experience, having witnessed a psychotic break of a SB right in front of me a year ago that involved the local gendarmes, I would run as far away as possible from a situation like this. It was unexpected (although in retrospect, yes, there were orange flags I passed off as "quirky" behavior) and the single most traumatic event of my life, I don't care how hot she is or how great the sex is.  

I am still nervous she'll show up at my door.

First, when reconnecting with a past SB I will generally give her the same allowance as in the past. I see it as a continuation of the original agreement and there is no need to renegotiate or even discuss - especially as you may inadvertently be negotiating against yourself. I.e.: "Since you ask, I need (old amt) plus $300)."

 
But as she already said something like "anything will help..." she's opened the door to accepting less than the old amount. This suggests she is desperate due to some unplanned needs (car repair, rent, legal fees/fines, etc.). However, if you are comfortable with the original amount, it would be kind of a dick move to short her just because you can.  

 
Next, is the bipolar crap.  I've been there and have vowed to never return. Ultimately it cost me orders of magnitude more cash, grief, and time than it was worth.  Maybe if you are sure this will be a one-time BCD, and you don't have better, more stable/less destructive options at hand... but adding more risk with no additional reward when it's not necessary seems ill advised.  Sometimes, an overabundance of pussy is not a good thing. But only sometimes. LOL  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Same as before. 300.  She is behind on her rent and spent 3000 on vet bills for her now dead cat

Vet bills, one of the main reasons I don't own pets

Kinda want to know which profile is hers.

She was very happy to see me. But dear God. She would not STFU.

Posted By: sympathyforthedevil
...But dear God. She would not STFU.
I feel like there is a pretty good punchline opportunity here... :p  

 
Glad it went well for you.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

As in, put something in her mouth?...

I did. But that was the only time she wasn't  blabbering.  Lol

I totally feel your pain though!I dated a girl like that several years ago.  She was always dtf, and had zero gag reflex!  So, lots of fun!  But she Would. Not. Shut. The. Fuck. Up!! On and on and on, about things and people I had zero interest in.  And never seemed to notice it was not a conversation with me, just a running monologue from her.  She could not "read the room" at all.  It was one of several factors that made me feel relieved, rather than sad, when it ended with her.

Seems to be a huge problem with a lot of women here in LA.  Not sure if I'm just meeting the wrong ones, or it really is culture to tell me everything you think whether I asked or not.

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