I once had a GF who offered me access to the provider-only part of TER. She told me that I wouldn't like it. She told me that she found it depressing because it was all about child care and SNAP benefits and child custody problems. I took her at her word, so that I didn't look.

Tip generously. A lot of the gals really need the money.

SA has an "advice" blog with posts from SB's. Some posts are made by SB's who are SA staff, some are not.  There was an open, unmoderated  forum on SA as well, where anyone (including SD's) could post and reply to those posts.  But it was suspended sometime last year when the forum was over run by spam posts.   I guess SA didn't want to fund anti-spam code or a moderator staff to police the board.  

 
There are also many other "sugar" boards around not affiliated with SA.  Just search google for something like "sugar baby advice" or  "sugar baby  forum", etc.  Actually, I highly recommend you find some of these and read as many posts as you can. It will give you a lot deeper appreciation of what SB's are thinking and why they are in the bowl.  But I do not suggest you post or reply yourself. Stay UTR on these.  

 
What you (probably) won't see is an easy to find "Daddy Black List" or posts that call out a SD by real or profile name. But if you're really nervous that some SB has posted crap about you, just use the site's search function to look for your name, profile name, or other info in the forum posts.  I doubt you will find anything...  

 
Life is good

 
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SB life can be kind of depressing.  At least three SB's I have met have since become homeless and begging for money.