The Erotic Highway

Maybe that's a good reason not to use text
sweetman 93 Reviews 175 reads
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I never move the conversation to text until we've already established a really good rapport on the SA message board.  I hate typing on the tiny phone touch screen anyway.  I like to keep all my conversations with a SB in one place, so moving to text is not something I like to do.  Maybe that's why I already know I want them in my contacts list.  If I'm texting them, they've already passed some major screening.

If ive seen or chatted with a lady enough I will save her name in my contacts.

Ive had several send me messages who have not reached that point with me yet I get a message not identifying th emselves and I have no idea who they are. But they know me.

How do you get them to say who they are?

As soon as I exchange phone numbers I add them to my contacts, sometime I identify them by their SA screen name if that's all I know, sometimes their real name followed by their SA name since I often can't remember who's who.  But when I get a text, at least I know right away who it's from.  And trying to get them to sign their text with a name is a pointless exercise in frustration.  They won't do it.  So just add them to your contacts.  I mean, why not?

I just want them to get to the point where I want them in my contacts. Lol

I never move the conversation to text until we've already established a really good rapport on the SA message board.  I hate typing on the tiny phone touch screen anyway.  I like to keep all my conversations with a SB in one place, so moving to text is not something I like to do.  Maybe that's why I already know I want them in my contacts list.  If I'm texting them, they've already passed some major screening.

rando_mn135 reads

You're less likely to get to that point with your current strategy. Even if they are using a fake name, they aren't going to be happy about you forgetting that fake name. Add them to your contacts right away, or continue suffering.

GaGambler170 reads

I must have hundreds of "contacts" with the notation "SA" under their name.  

 
If I don't have a name I simply use their "handle" until they give me a name, and then of course my phone keeps the chain of conversation going so I can look back on our past conversations to refresh my memory before responding.

 
On the rare occasions that I get a text from an unknown party, I simply respond that I lost my old phone and that is why I don't know who this is. Ironically i did just get a new phone not too long ago, but I keep my old phone handy "just in case" I need to go back and view an old text message exchange. Even more ironically this came in very handy just a few days ago when I got a text from someone simply listed as "Amand SA" in my contacts wanting to see me and for the life of me I couldn't remember her. I grabbed my old phone, looked up Amanda in my contacts, hit "send message" and it brought up the entire chain of conversation we had had a few months back. It saved me the embarrassment of asking "who the fuck are you?" lol

I loaded up the app SMS Backup+ to transfer my text messages to my new phone.  Of course, you have to backup when the old phone is still operational.  Handy app.

If you get a phone number, google it.  Then search it on your social media outlets.  FB, instagram, Snapchat, etc. you may get lucky and find their real name.  

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