I appreciate the kind words of support from my sugar brothers.
I have continued my graphs and tracking and will have a new hit/miss average report once I hit the 500 POTS mark to see how my batting averages have fared over the past 6 months since my last analysis. Overall, I'd say it remains about the same as it was 6 months ago but it's not all bad news as I do have a nice rotation in play that has remained pretty consistent. All my current SB's seem happy and appear to be content with the arrangements. Of course, everything is great till it isn't and the nature of sugar and life itself is constant change. I would just like to see a higher quality of SB's! The ones I have in current rotation are by no means marginal, however there's room for improvement. I am also aware of the human fallacy of thinking the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I see some of those hot profile photos [too good to be true] and have to remember that most of them are either not realistically attainable within my means or aren't real in the first place. [Or are bat shit crazy!]
My shitty batting average continues despite my best efforts.
I've had 5 no-shows in a row in the past two weeks for previously confirmed M&G's.
These are all girls who texted with me, spoke on phone and agreed to meet at a specific place/day/time and morning of the meet and then ghosted.
Thankfully I still have a pretty reliable rotation now but have been trying to fill 2 vacancies that opened up a few months ago and it's been really tough going finding suitable replacements that are much over a 5 or 6.
With all the posts I've read on Reddit about the shortage of decent SD's and all the success stories posted by dubious 'SD' Lotharios one would think these POT SB's would be lined up around the block but all I've encountered are fakes, flakes and phonies.
Am thinking about trying SDM but I've seen mixed reviews of this and don't see direct evidence it would be worth the money and hassle.
We have always lamented how cyclic this space is. It's frustrating (yes, that is a deliberate double entendre)!
But what really chafes my butt is not the rug burns we aren't getting from banging on the living room floor. It's that NO ONE can figure out what the fuck the cycle is!
Hang in there. Be somewhat comforted by the unscientific analysis I did a few years ago using US Census Bureau data:
On every day of every month of every year, there are at least 2,500 women celebrating their 18th birthday in every state in the Union. If only 1% of them sign up, that still 250 new profiles a day!
Please join me in thanking our government (such as it is :p ) for tracking the National Sugar Inventory (NSI?) for all of us.
We've all had our share of no shows. But 5 in a row really sucks! All I can say is that after having one of my worst weeks in the sugar bowl ever, the week ended with a wonderful new SB fucking my brains out. So the process still works. Keep working it, the law of averages, (or is it reversion to the mean??) is now in your favor!
I appreciate the kind words of support from my sugar brothers.
I have continued my graphs and tracking and will have a new hit/miss average report once I hit the 500 POTS mark to see how my batting averages have fared over the past 6 months since my last analysis.
Overall, I'd say it remains about the same as it was 6 months ago but it's not all bad news as I do have a nice rotation in play that has remained pretty consistent. All my current SB's seem happy and appear to be content with the arrangements. Of course, everything is great till it isn't and the nature of sugar and life itself is constant change.
I would just like to see a higher quality of SB's! The ones I have in current rotation are by no means marginal, however there's room for improvement.
I am also aware of the human fallacy of thinking the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. I see some of those hot profile photos [too good to be true] and have to remember that most of them are either not realistically attainable within my means or aren't real in the first place. [Or are bat shit crazy!]
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