I normally stick w hard cash (benjis) for ppm since I am very particular about discretion and privacy esp when it comes to my bank accounts  

One of my SBs is traveling. And needs some quick cash where she is at — I told her I don’t f electronic transfers and she understands  

But she described a method where I can go to any 7-11 or say Walgreens etc and deposit actual cash bills into her cashapp barcode. I only have to show her cash app barcode  (she will text it to me) to the cashier for that to happen , and I don’t need to download or install cash app at my end at all  

Just curious if any of you have any experience with this  

Side note — the amount isn’t huge (it’s like 250 bucks), and I trust her enough not to flake on me after receiving the cash, although i understand that’s always a possibility and I am ok w it

One of my SB does it with her tip money.  The only issue that can arise it the merchant might ask for ID, which for her account, you obviously would not have.
An alternative is to simply deposit the cash into your Cash App account which would allow you to send the money electronically any time you chose.
Either way there is no traceability to your bank account or debit card.

First, these "facilitated" cash transfers through places like 7-11, Western Union or others will charge a hefty service fee. It could be as much as $10-$40.  

 
Next, I get that you trust her, but even so, $250 is a big chunk of change to put at risk.  Does she really need that much? If she has a specific cost to cover, is there any way you can pay it directly?  There are many of us here, including me who have been set up by CURRENT SB's like this. You've gone BCD a few times, she's been fun and no drama, and then comes the ask:  her kids birthday party, her major car repair, her card won't work at the hotel, etc. In my cases, the single-mom just ghosted me after, the car repair had already replaced me with a new SD and just wanted to extract a final payout, and the hotel girl was actually using the room in Vegas to hook up with a Chad she met at the strip hotel pool.  

 

Disclaimer:  I am not an OpSec expert in the Sugar Bowl. I don't care who sees my activity. There are others here who are true experts. And there are experts on the General Discussion board who need OpSec for their mongering activities with pros.  

 
Finally, there are many person-to-person cash transfer apps available, and they all involve at least 2 banks (yours and hers). If you want to be able to send cash online and don't want to see any records in your bank account that just can't happen. There are too many laws on anti-crime, terrorism, and money laundering to ever see a truly anonymous cash transfer service in the US and almost all western countries.  But - you can get a separate bank account at a different bank.  Then use the new once to fund your fun.   Open it with cash, then top-up with more cash as needed. Do not apply for a credit card on that account so you do not get a new record added to your credit bureau report.  

 

Life is good

 
The Cat

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Thanks Euro and HC v helpful responses  

Y I don’t know what the fee charged by 7/11 might be — will find out  

I can try and download cash app myself but I am really wary of having any digital  link from any SB back to me that could be traced by some expert or what not  

Hc - I hear you on the possible ghosting after she gets the money — but I have known her for like almost 2y — off and on. This is a chance I am willing to take since she is so hot and crazy in bed — I usually don’t do multiple rounds  in one date but she is the one who makes it happen, lol

The fee is like nothing.

It's quite painless, not sure why with money laundry laws, but they don't check anything and don't require a link to your bank accounts, etc.

I found it works for some of my ex-SB in that they don't ever have to work with a bank.  My current ones, I take exquisite care of, for example my #1 is a co-user of my credit card.

I suppose if you can't trust a girl with money, then why even trust her for anything.

I have avoided CashApp - their online info states they require SSN. Which ties you to your real name and address, etc.  

By contrast I opened a Paypal account without SSN. Transferred small amounts of money (hundreds) to Paypal via one-time pre-paid credit cards. All completely anonymous.

I don't have much useful advice on cash apps.  I don't have anyone in my life (yet) who would/could look for/into them.  As such, I have charged them from my bank account and used them to transfer money.  And yes, in advance, without any collateral.

 
Whether you trust this SB is purely up to you.  Your money, your choice.

I forget which one, but isn't one of these cash transfer/payment companies notoriously bad for OpSec - that ALL your transactions are public to others by default?

I believe you are talking about Venmo, which is owned by PayPal but is a separate app and service.  

 
Venmo has a setting that allows the user to share their transactions (amount, payer, payee, and type of item or service) in sort of a Facebook style (e.g.:  "Bob paid $25 to Sam for burgers."  In this example, Bob typed in "burgers." He could have typed anything; lunch, gas, repairs, etc.) The setting can be set to private (only Bob and Sam), share with Venmo friends (Bob's and Sam's), or share to public (anyone who knows Bob's or Sam's Venmo ID).  

 
Some celebrities and nefarious people have made the news when they did not set their activity to private. I have been using Venmo for mundane payments as well as Sugar since it was purchased by PayPal and have always used the private setting with no problems,  

 
BUT - if you want to use it for allowance, make sure the recipient also has their activity set to private.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

Yes, Venmo is the one. Couldn't think of the name yesterday.
So, every transactions could be public to all relatives and friends using the system, in fact anyone you transacted with.
And the kicker was, that being public was the DEFAULT!