This is good to hear, Net! Nice to know some of these gals do appreciate the kindness and respect. All too often I'm met with low effort and unappreciative SB's who don't seem to value the respect I give them. When we do find someone that does they are keepers!
SB I've been seeing for over a year. New she was the side chick with my main for a long time. In the last month or so since the main and I broke up she's been far more open with me. At first, I thought she wanted to be more of a relationship with a steady allowance vs every so often hooking up. But she rejected that. But still, continues to give me more and more personal info on her life.
She said today on our lunch and fuck date, "you are the only guy who ever respected me". Then, when she gets home she texts me from her real number. Told me it's always been a google number and only about 2 people outside of family have it.
Mixed signals galore from her. But, to sum up. She's hot as hell, super sweet, and one of the few California girls who doesn't just talk about themselves all the time. Keeper for sure.
Her comment about you respecting her is a real testament to you being a gentleman and a good guy! It's a sad state of affairs that so few of these girls routinely get treated with respect. That's often what sets us apart from most other men. A few years ago I was talking to my then #1 and asked her to recall our first M&G. I asked her what it was that made her decide to get intimate with me. She answered right away "because your treated me like a person and not a piece of meat". That simple display of respect earned me one of the best long term sexual relationships I've ever had. So, good job NN, props!
At the heart of every satisfying and lasting arrangement lies mutual respect. Each understands the power balance, and each understands that "mutually beneficial" is more about "mutual" than "beneficial" if they want to continue the relationship.
From there comes consistency. And from consistency comes trust which ultimately leads back to respect.
I will wager that this SB has never (or at least rarely and not recently) tried to play you for some kind of simp by asking for a significantly expensive gift of cash or some wanted (but not needed) item without offering some kind of reciprocity.
So guess what, friend netnoy? You are already in a steady relationship, albeit with an irregular schedule. Congratulations.
This is good to hear, Net! Nice to know some of these gals do appreciate the kindness and respect. All too often I'm met with low effort and unappreciative SB's who don't seem to value the respect I give them. When we do find someone that does they are keepers!
It's her opening up to me. She's been hurt before so getting her to trust me is the big deal. A lot of women are not trusting because guys have treated them like shit. She's been through a lot in her life. Us being a strong point of stability in our SBs lives shows off who we are as a group.
Regardless of how arrangements end, the long term ones do grow and gain from us. Hopefully not just financially. I've had a few start their careers and go off to be better than they would have without knowing me. Many are now clients.
Posted By: Euro-Guy
Re: Is that consired a big deal? I think you are a quite a dude for any girl.
But totally missing why it's something to mention.
I know all of my sweeties: number/address/mothers' name LOL
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