The Erotic Highway

SA strategies for conference visits, one off trips?
magoo251 30 Reviews 689 reads
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Have been somewhat successful on SA approaching when I am going to be in town within 24-48 hours and leading with, "It's likely not your thing, but ...."

Any other strategies that have worked?

herbtcat 6 Reviews 42 reads
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... when I was travelling 5 or 6 times per quarter for work.  Ultimately, I stopped trying because the ROI on time and schedule management wasn't worth the effort when I could just wait 2 days to come home and take my #1 or #2 out for some BCD time.  

 

But my approach was a little different than yours:  
1. Initial message was more like:  I'll be there next week, and plan on returning once or twice a month. Are you interested in meeting to explore?  
2. Cast a wide net:  You may need to send 20 to get 4 replies. Then set up 3 M&G's over three days to get one or two BCD's. Then find that one out of 4 BCD's (in the last month) are good enough to want to repeat.  
3. Be careful not to double-book yourself.  This may be controversial.  Some guys here will tell you to ALWAYS double book so you have a backup to avoid dead time. But my Plan B was to line up a pro as backup.  May not be as much fun, but much more reliable.  

 
With that strategy, I got plenty of BCD for allowances ranging from cheap ($200) to crazy expensive ($600).  But I probably dropped an extra $300-400 in 1st date dinners, drinks, uber, etc.  for each business trip.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

magoo251 30 Reviews 43 reads
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Thank you Herb.

I'm likely NOT going to be returning, however. At least, not for some time.

I agree re wide net. It is costly to do so in terms of time.  Too bad there aren't a group of UTR Pros that don't mind throwing a dinner onto the date for a low rate.

I never double book. I take my chances, line up a pro for backup, or just keep the money and buy something for myself!

herbtcat 6 Reviews 37 reads
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Oh I was generally not returning either.  In my experience, POT SB's (with the possible exception of UTR pros or semi-pros), do not want to appear like hook up whores only interested in a quick buck. So providing at least the appearance of a possible recurring deal makes them more comfortable.  My best experience with that was meeting a smoking hot 22 year old Asian in Baltimore. She was drop dead hot, slim, perfect skin, clear eyes and great smile, and a tight-fit body.  Her personality was demure and playful and I was hard as a rock all through a steak and wine dinner.  

 
It wasn't until after she came out my hotel shower after crazy lust-filled BB fun that she told me she asked for that particular restaurant because she was only 18 and knew the bartender there would serve her booze.  I almost blew another load on the bed right then.  

 
Later she told me she was really afraid of being cast as a whore by her friend so she told the friend I was her new BF's grand father. Never saw her again.

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

arrowman 41 Reviews 62 reads
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sweetman 93 Reviews 80 reads
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on trips to CA, Phx, etc.  My approach depends on how long I'll be in their area.  If it's just one or two days, I really don't want to waste time with M&Gs, just want them to show up at my hotel for some BCD fun.  So I start prospecting a week or two before the trip and tell them when I'll be in town.  I always say that while I love long term, ongoing arrangements, short term, even one time things can be sweet and genuine.  Then I ask if they'd be open to a playdate with an out of town visitor? If they say yes, we talk about specifics.  I've enjoyed some really awesome dates while traveling that way.

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