Tons of girls think just because they are hot they can push you around.  Or find a guy to push around.  Don't fall for it.  Especially early.

Current example, had a first date with a pot.  We already did a video chat that went well.  Smoking hot, 9/10.  Nice boobs, probably fake.  We were supposed to have drinks Saturday night.  She had a dinner cruise with friends that was supposed to end at 9.  Begged me to drive to her but would come to me every other time.

What happens?  Cruise didn't end at 9.  I got to the bar at 9:15 and all she can say is boat isn't docked.  Turns out it was a Halloween party and not a dinner cruise.  So she either lied or is an idiot.  I wait an hour then drive home.  Three hours in total wasted.  No apologies from her.  Two days later gives a lame I'm sorry text with pics of her costume saying at least I'm cute.  Doesn't work on me.  She asked for a second chance.  I said fine but you are coming to me.  She agrees, now day of the meet, she decides she doesn't want to drive.  We are too far.  Asks me to come to her again.  I laughed and told her she flaked on me once.  If we are doing this she has to come to me.  No response.

Don't fall for lazy.  Tons of girls out there.  Rent is coming due.  She will either be ready to jump on my dick or someone else in a week.

Liars and/or idiots are not necessary in our lives!  Some of these less worthy pots think that just because they have a pussy they can treat us any way they want.  If they only knew their competition a bit better, maybe they would shape up!  Cases in point, my #1 regular is extremely reliable and dependable.  When she thinks she's going to be late she always let's me know, and in fact she never is late by more than 5 minutes, and always apologizes for that tiny infraction!  And my traveling SB doesn't even live in my state.  But when we make a plan to meet she always shows up, right on time and ready for fun.  I'll give a new SB one chance to flake on a planned meetup, but only one.  There's much better fishies in the sea, even here in Pussy Siberia!

I recently added a phrase to the 'What are you looking for' section of my SD profile, basically saying that I'm looking for someone who is not just a taker, but a giver too.

 
I get that the role of a POT is to consume my "resources".  But, if you you can't be bothered to invest your time and effort into improving your own situation, I'm not interested.

I have found this pretty common behavior among the hotter POTS. They figure they can be inconsiderate and not respect an SD's time because they are hot and men are pawing all over them. Even when they are vying [presumably] to be paid well for their time and attention. It's short sighted to say the least, but many aren't working with accurate value systems.  If they are being flaky and not showing up on time, playing cat and mouse games, hard to reach, not answering texts for hours and days at a time, it's time to move on. There are respectful ladies out there that won't do this shit. There are genuine, attractive, respectful/reliable SB's out there. When you find one, treat her well.