Some of your recall I have posted about sugar discussions on the re-- platform. It turns out there are several, including one apparently recently formed for SBs 'only.' The primary purpose appears to be to warn gals against .. guys like a lot on here, claiming they are hobbyists and 'cheap johns.' Interestingly, they can't stop anyone from reading the forum but can block you from posting or commenting (I got banned with a nasty message after making an innocuous comment). But they are also directing readers to a more tightly controlled discord forum.
This place seems to be promoting a sense of entitlement and princess behavior but seems less focused on the 'relationship' than the cash. They quote from some escort forums (not TER) as part of their warnings.
Here are a few examples:
"Never give a girl money before meeting her. It’s always a scam"
1.Lie -- they call it a 'scam' because it weeds the cheap johns/ tricks and hobbyists out better than anything. They are stingy, so weed to out the cheap/ stingy: Do not meet any man unless he displays financial generosity before the 1st date, or during the 1st date with a financial or thoughtful gift (he can send a gift before meeting or make sure he is gifting something substantial on a first date)
If you hang out too long on SLF, you might become convinced that sugar daddies all scoff at paying for the M&G...but I had several outright offer to pay for the M&G without any prompting from me. This encouraged me to ask for payment from the ones who didn't, and after a quick phone call to voice verify, most of them agreed to $150 - $200 for a platonic 1st in-person meeting.
So many men are so cheap here and won’t do $700 it’s so annoying
Keep this in mind ...an average 'overnight' at a brothel is $2,000 but with a mid-range to high-end, independent, GFE (girlfriend experience) escort, it can be $4,000 to $10,000 (and up)