Messaged a girl who works at the gate house of my country club. I live in a gated golf community and I think this girl works the guard gate.  Will she keep quite?  Or take my money and give me some sugar?  

the one my wife and I eat at frequently.  My wife thinks it's the same girl and thinks she's definitely cute and perky enough to do well as a SB!  Will she recognize me as one of her customers when she views my profile??  Will she care?

but if you're an Adrenalin junkie, go for it.

Good news she doesn’t work at the gate house!  🤗.  She blocked me on SA, Bad news! 😧

Not to deflate your ego, but....this doonesbury cartoon says it all to me. I remember, somewhere in my 40's(?) I began to be aware of this invisibility effect. The odd thing, though, is that once you get past 40-50's, I think the visibility starts to go back up. Maybe see escorts and some success with the SBs has me exuding more confidence than 10 years ago?