Sorry to hear that sweetman. I guess the odds caught up with you. Just be thankful it wasn’t some 6’ 5” overgrown guerrilla looking to dismember you because she was his sister, daughter, or girlfriend. A that for $200 seems like a lot of work. You said it was incomplete, so did they get more than just the cash?
In this case, a reverse number program is going to net you zero. They most likely used a GV # or a burner phone.
Thankful your in one piece. Be a lover not a fighter! Lol
I agree with your sentiment, I'm mos def a lover, not a fighter! They did not get more than the $200 cash which is a trivial amount, I could care less. And I am grateful the situation wasn't worse. Nor am I seeking to punish them or get retribution. What I am concerned about is trying to get some sort of proof that this girl was not underage. She didn't look it, but we all know how unreliable looks can be. What they took from me is my peace of mind. There's a chance that the girl really is underage, the Aunty is in fact looking out for her safety, and they will actually report a suspected predator (me) to the cops. That's a sort of trouble I seriously don't want. And if that's true, then they are not actually premeditated scammers, they are a family with an out of control unruly teenager. They would not be using any means to conceal their phone numbers. That's why a reverse search could help me determine which scenario is more likely. Are they scammers or was she really underage? I gotta wonder if SA does anything at all to verify the age of a girl/woman who joins the site. Do any of you know?
It's a variation of a scam that started way back in the streetwalker days and in more recent days was commonly used on BP. Sorry this happened to you, but these scammers are almost always lowlifes who really are only interested in the lousy couple of hundred bucks they get from each victim. The chances of her "Aunt" actually reporting you to LE or her even being her Aunt are remote.
As for your recourse, I would most definitely notify SA Admin so they can red flag her account and her profile which will make it a bit tougher for her to create new accounts in the future. I don't honestly know if SA makes the younger SB's prove their age or not, but I do know that once a profile has been flagged SA does have at least some safeguards in effect, similar to the guys that get booted off the site, that make it MUCH harder for these scammers to create new profiles.
I know it's tough to understand why someone would go through so much work for a lousy two hundred bucks, especially when a cute girl can make so much more by actually getting a bunch of SD's who see her on a regular basis, but I guess in her mind she'd rather be a thief than a ho. Go figure. There used to be hundreds and hundreds of these kind of ROB reviews on TER before FOSTA/SESTA. I know you can't review her, but you can do the next best thing and make SA aware of her scam. SA will do everything in their power to keep rip offs like her off the site as it's THEIR reputation that takes a hit every time something like this happens.
One question for you. WHY in the fuck did you answer the door without preparing yourself for this. I am sorry, maybe it's from growing up on the wrong side of the tracks, but I would NEVER just open the door in the situation you found yourself in. I grew up with pimps, hookers, junkies and dealers being a part of my life, I don't need to pre plan a game plan for this type of situation, it's just natural for me after all these decades, but for the rest of you, you really should plan ahead for these types of eventualities so you don't get caught flat footed when the time comes. I think everyone here should have an idea of what to do if faced with the situation you found yourself in. Your response of course should be consistent with your personality of course. I am much more the type to be confrontational, and to answer the door with gun in hand. (It also helps to live in Texas where I am within my legal rights to do so), your personality might not be the type to confront a would be robber, so keep that in mind too. In hindsight you might even conclude that there is nothing you would have done differently, but it is something that EVERYONE who does this needs to at least think about BEFORE it happens to you.
I know your biggest question is if you have anything to worry about going forward, and I can assure you that It's VERY unlikely that anything she told you is the truth and your chances of ever hearing from either of them are extremely remote. BTW were you in your RV at the time?
Posted By: GaGambler
I grew up with pimps, hookers, junkies and dealers being a part of my life, I don't need to pre plan a game plan for this type of situation, it's just natural for me after all these decades, but for the rest of you, you really should plan ahead for these types of eventualities so you don't get caught flat footed when the time comes. I think everyone here should have an idea of what to do if faced with the situation you found yourself in.
It's always a lot easier to think things through before or after the fact but human brains often go a little bit haywire in the heat of the moment. Athletes, pilots, and others whose actual work on-the-clock is high stress and high pressure train all the time to make sure that their brain doesn't short circuit what should be the correct reaction to a new situation. A lot of quick response to sudden stress is reflex and those reflexes can be trained. Growing up in a situation like GaG describes can help to train those reflexes from an early age. I guess if you increase your hobbying, that will be good preparation for the occasional date that goes wrong.
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"The best laid schemes o' mice an' men gang aft agley." - Robert Burns (a notorious womanizer of his day, before it was necessary to be a hobbyist) 
Yes, I was in my RV at the time. Even though my own upbringing was very sheltered, and I abhor confrontation and violence, I believe fervently that every man has a right to defend himself and the people under his protection, in his his home or his vehicle. I own firearms and am quite competent with them. I have a concealed carry permit.
I did not have a firearm in the RV with me at the time. Thinking back, I'm just as glad that I did not. I suppose if the intruder had been intent on harming me rather than just taking the girl away I might wish I'd been armed. I am always armed at home. Now I need to reexamine my decision about whether to also be armed when I go out dating.
Also, while I'd like to believe that SA has a vested interest in keeping underage girls off the site, I'm not at all sure they make any real attempt to keep them off. I have reported nearly every aspect of this encounter to SA admin and been assured their fraud team is investigating. but a few days after the incident, she popped right back up with the same damn profile, just a different screen name. Did she convince them she is 18+? I'd love to know that! Did SA perform any due diligence whatsoever before allowing this girl back on their site? Their credibility with me sure has suffered a big hit, at least for now!
Best remedy for this is to find some nice young thing and have a good time! If that doesn’t get your mind trending back to the good old days, do it again and again until it does. 😝
In fact, I've already done as you suggest 4 times with 4 very sweet very young honeys. It has eased my mind considerably!
