When I was going to be in New Orleans for a week, I decided to see if it could be almost as easy to set up appointments with SBs as it is with escorts. It is. Here's how I approached it.
Picked 20-ish likely looking SBs, and wrote the same communication to all of them:
"I lived in New Orleans years ago, and I'll be in town for a few days visiting family. I'm interested in an evening out with you, for drinks, dinner and some private fun afterwards. I'm experienced on SA and I understand how this all works. From your profile, I got the impression that this might be of interest to you as well..
If that sounds like a fun, text me at XXXX and we can discuss it."
Or, something like that, only a bit more subtle, and I did include a customization paragraph in each letter, based on something in their profiles.
I eventually sent about 30 messages, got something like 5-6 serious interests, no one got pissed off; the ones who weren't interested just didn't reply.
I did a lot of research on N.O. SB prices and deliberately went over the median, offering $400 for the evening. That's nearly double what I pay at home, but, hey, this was an experiment, and how much is 4-6 hours with an escort? With that price, I had 5 or so SBs who were VERY interested, so I got to pick the ones I liked best.
I had two great evenings in three days (skipped a day in between!) with two lovely young ladies who I'll never see again. Both hot, 25-ish, charming and great in the sack. As a "control" in this experiment I also booked 90 minutes with a good N.O. escort, which cost me $600. The SBs were at least as good, and the overall experience was better and more fun.
So, I just told the truth and it worked fine.