Apparently, my recent 23 year old Latina acquisition has ghosted me... on the day we were supposed to meet.
I had our 3rd date lined up for tonight. Texted yesterday around 11 am and got confirmation.
Texted her this morning with a pick up time (she has no car), and then again when I left home, and once more when I arrived. No responses. Which is unusual for her as 1st two date she replied promptly when I was on the way. Texted a few more times up on arrival, until about 10 past. Then called. Phone not in service.
Tried to message her through SA and her profile is gone. When I got home about 20 minutes later, I searched for her profile. Nada. Can't even see my old SA messages. I also searched for her profile with my local alt account. Nothing.
So in a day she wiped her profile, changed her phone or blocked my phone, and left me with an extra $300 with no where to spend it... for maybe the next 24 hours. LOL Fortunately, my shy, Latina who's been on my "nice guy" back order list will be a perfect replacement.
In the meantime, I already lined up my stripper friend for dinner and a special massage on Sunday, so as I always say...
Life is good
The Cat
Sorry you had a no show. But since her profile is gone and phone number gone or blocked you really don't need to waste any more time on her. I had a cancellation last week with no explanation, but at least it was before I left the house to meet her. And my date for today just said she had to go in to work. Oh well, that's life in the bowl! I have a new m&g set up for Tuesday, and I do think today's date will return . She says she misses me and promises not to flake next time. Sounds like you have already moved on as well. It's all about Happy Hunting.
But, if she deleted her profile, which has been my experience quite often lately, it still shows your past messages. Strange...
These days the ebb and flow of the board seems mostly a receding tide, so hopefully, things will return back to normal eventually. If not, we all jump ship!
I got frustrated with a date that was giving me the "I need to feel safe before we have sex" line but wanted to be paid for the platonic dates leading up to the BCD date. I played along for two dates, but only paid for one date as I felt she deserved some compensation for the 4-5 hours she spent with me. Long story but suffice it to say, I smelled a rat coming and decided to cut my loses before I had spent too much (time and money) on her.
I got back on last night and immediately hit it off with a couple of women. One was an obvious escort, whom I am going to see tonight and is only in town for a couple of weeks. lol. Like GaGa, I have nothing against escorts.
The others, well I am keeping my fingers crossed on the 22 yo blonde. God I have a terrible weakness for blondes.
Go with your instincts, they know you better than anyone else.
I had a similar situation with an SB about 2 years ago. She wouldn't agree to sex until she felt "comfortable."
We went on four dates without sex, just movies or dinners. But I only gave her $40 for each date - which covered her gas both ways (2 x 35 mile drive for her), plus a few bucks more. I told her I was ok waiting a while for her good about sex with me, but that there would be no real sugar until we got BCD time. Before the 5th date, I had decided that if she didn't commit on our next date, I'd bail after that night. Fortunately, before I could bring it up in discussion, she told me she was going to follow me home from the restaurant for fun times.
Sugar went to $250 as previously agreed. Of course, by the time I got her naked, I had built up so much back up for her that I blew out a CIP in about 15 minutes. So we lined up round 2 after I had a shot break to recharge.... because...
Life is good
The Cat
