My first college SB, a beautiful girl who had just joined the site,  told me something that I would hear over and over again:   young men of the millennial generation are notoriously cheap.  Here's what my SB told me:

 She had been dating her BF for a year, so their first "Relationship Anniversary" had arrived.  He took her to her favorite restaurant, the Cheesecake Factory.   When the check arrived, he suggested they split the bill.  She ended up paying for both of them.   For her, that was the deal-breaker.   "I knew there was a guy out there who would buy me a nice meal" she said.  She had read an article on the sugar scene, so she joined an arrangement site.  Her first sugar date was with a guy named Zangari, lol.  

 I offered $100 to meet at her favorite restaurant, no strings attached.  At the time,  I didn't realize that we were having lunch at the scene of the crime, the Cheesecake Factory.  Right after we ordered, I handed her an envelope with $100 in cash.  "Thanks for meeting me," I said.  We then talked mostly about her--where she was from, and where she would like to be.   Then I made my arrangement pitch ($300 once a week).  After lunch, I picked up the check (just like any guy here would do), and thanked her again for meeting me.   Two weeks later, she was in bed with me.  

  A message to her cheap boyfriend:  thank you.   All you had to do was buy her a meal at her favorite restaurant.  I was once a broke college boy--there's no shame in that.  But I could always scrape up enough cash to take my girlfriend to dinner and a movie.  It's not that expensive.  

 Just about every college SB will tell you a story almost identical to the one above.  Thanks to the young dudes for being so cheap.  I've really enjoyed fucking your girlfriends.  You may be younger and better looking, but she's in bed with me now.  Thanks for making this so easy.  --

is just plain inattentive.  Yes, the money is a the single biggest factor in her decision to go this route.  But it also helps that the BF simply doesn't make her a priority.  One of the first college girls I met enjoyed the fact that I paid attention to her.  I can't tell you how many times she would text asking for an opinion on something or having a question that she didn't feel she would get an honest answer too.

A common scenario.   Many of the young guys are struggling financially, just as the SBs are.  So they are not especially generous.  

I really like it when the women are very appreciative of what you do for them, even if it's not over the top.  If you treat them well, they will cum.

Curious if an older guy can make it work. How old are you

 This girl wasn't asking for a BMW.  I think the check for lunch at the Cheesecake Factory was like $60 (with tip).   Her BF was getting free sex from a smoking hot girl.  Yet he couldn't find $60 to spend on her for a special occasion, OMG.   Remember when you were in college--you could always find ways to make some money part-time.  Even if you didn't have a part-time job, your family & friends would throw money your way for odd jobs: yard work, minor auto repair, etc.  

  These young dudes today spend a lot of money on cars, clothes, cellphones, etc.  But they can't afford to take their girlfriend to a nice dinner.  Don't worry, young dudes.  I'll take care of it.   But soon you'll be wondering where the hell she's at.  You know when you're blowing up her phone?   Her cell is on the night table of my hotel room--buzzing like an angry wasp while I'm fucking her.  She'll get back to you soon.  --z

 If you're asking me, I'm in my early 50s.  I'm lucky that I still have a full head of hair (although my sideburns are now turning gray).  I'm reasonably fit--I run two miles a day and lift.  And I'm careful in how I dress-- I go on a sugar date with either a suit (sans tie) or at least a blazer with jeans.  

 Rule of thumb for hobbyists:  if you have a beautiful ATF who contacts you for appts & spends off-the-clock time with you, then you can make it work in the sugar bowl.  You're already in a quasi-sugar relationship.  That's how I started.  My ATF dropped off P411 & turned me into her SD for 3 years.  --

Do you give every girl 100 for the lunch meeting?  Some profiles I read say the girl wants to get to know you better not just go straight to sex. Would you still offer 100 to her?

 Yep, I offer $100 for a lunch date.   Typically you will have to spend some money up front before you get any action.  If you try  bedding a college girl on that first date, your failure rate goes way up.  Unless you look like George Clooney.  

 I'll post a separate thread on setting up a sugar date.  A lot of hobbyists get lost right here, because a College SB usually has way different expectations than a provider.  --

Spell check named you Sangria and I didn't check.