whenever im having sex with a new girl, my dick for some reason is never at 100% inside her, sometimes i think it actually gets smaller when im in her...Im in my 20's so i dont think its any erictle dysfunction, plus this never happens when im masturbating or with a girlfriend i havebeen with a while...so im starting to think its just nerves....u guys got any ideas on how to overcome this? i heard that there were excercises like kegel excercises that'll help ur erections get stronger...anyone know anything bout this or know some other good excercise to strenghten erections?

Ok, maxum220,

It must be the "I'm-with-a-new-provider-and-I-can't-get-it-up-all-the-way" week! These queries come up often enough that I think I'd better write that hobbyist sex manual after all, LOL.

Don't worry - it happens more often than you think. Kegels probably won't help as much as meeting with the same chick over and over again...to HABITUATE your "nerves" and get over the initial anticipatory anxiety of forging ahead in new vaginal territory. But heck, nothing wrong with doing Kegels. Find info on how to do them in the attached link. That, and staying off any substances, NOT jacking off right before the session, and not eating heavy meals.

Go slightly hungry, horny, and remember to pee before you stick it in,
The Love Goddess

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lol thanks for the advice sounds good. i didnt think goin to a provider kinda hungry would help with erections, thats pretty interesting.

I asked my doctor for a free sample.  He asked me if I was having a problem.  I asked if I had to have a problem to get a sample.  He said that it is not a recreation drug.  I said, “OK, after I get off a couple of times I have trouble getting it up again.”  He asked if that was a problem.  I said yes and he handed me my free sample. I was embarrassed and he did not push or question me further. Prescriptions were available after that.  The main concern is that you do not take nitrates if you take Viagra.
    What you have described is a legitimate problem for you.  I have had similar issues.  No problem at home with the SO but problems with nerves with a provider.  We are both legitimate candidates for occasional use of Viagra.  Get the 100 mg pills.  They are the same price as the 50s and you can split them in half.  They do cost about $14 each though.  Good luck.
Treetopflier

...and its effect on the body.  It sounds like its nerves; try using Vitamin V, or perhaps schedule a multihour or multisession appt with a provider.  I prefer multihour, that way I can get to know and chat with the girl (calming the nerves, leading to a much more productive session).  If it is ED, try a consult with a medical doctor.  Good luck!

If he is having trouble sometimes then V can help.  I am in my late 40s and get fine erections, thank you very much.  If I am nervous or uncomfortable Vitamen V keeps the blood flowing where I want.  Other suggestions made here are good also.  A legitamate script for Viagra is easy to get.  Knock off viagra is even easier to get but the source is questionable.