White Knight posted about success stories of girls getting their careers in order.  We should also talk about failure stories where girls don't get their shit together.  Mostly so we can all see the red flags of what we are getting into and learn about it.

I have a few to share.  First story, then red flags.

1. She just straight up went pro ho.  Thinking she can charge $700 per hour.  Saw her ads up on Tryst and she has gained a lot of weight.  So, can't imagine she's paying a lot of bills this way.  She had really no sense of what to do with life.  26, overweight, ok looking, big boobs.  Basically was going from SD to SD and living with her grandmother, at least so she told me.
     - super ditzy and had no sense of anyone else's schedule
    - traveled a lot, supposedly to visit family.  I think she was already escorting

2. Met during COVID.  Smoking hot.  But played games wanting me to be a boyfriend.  Tried to get me to cosign her lease.  Thankfully I dodged that because she got evicted for not paying her rent right before the eviction ban went into effect.  I'd be stuck covering it since she wasn't paying.  4 years later I saw her still on seeking.  Same exact pics from four years ago.  No job, living on friends couches.
   - flakey on what she did for work.  Couldn't explain her job or what type of job she wanted
   - kept sending me pics but they were always the same pics over and over again, maybe the same five
   - kept complaining about her landlord not wanting to renew the lease with her without a cosigner.  I should have asked her how often she was late on rent.
   - deceptive about sex.  Would say it would happen then not, then complain all I wanted was sex, but still wanted an allowance if it didn't.

3. I've bitched about this one before.  This one lasted two years.  Told me she was in love with me.  Supposedly was a model and worked in film industry.  Found out she lied about all of it, was married, had a boyfriend, and the 'film' sets she was working on was really her travelling to escort.  She was kind enough to steal a ton of money from me and give the clap.  It's with the police now.  
   - her 'best friend' was a dude that was very clingy
   - she would travel to be on film crews, later I looked and saw her name was never in the credits of what she said she was working on
   - always had no money even though she was supposedly making bank working on movie sets
   - refused to ever show me any text messages or emails she would get

These kinds of stories sober one up in a hurry.  We're playing chess, not checkers.

It's truly a mindfield out there, gents. Be very careful and learn to think critically with your big head. Generally speaking, I've found the hotter the girl the higher the likelihood she will bring head games, drama and exhibit baffling, inconsistent behavior to the relationship. [Provided you can still find genuine HOT girls on Seeking, for me they all seem to be scams, flakes and phonies.]  

Always keep in mind that regardless of how much it may feel like true love, it ain't.  

When all the pillow talk and faux-romance interplay is through, make no mistake about it, you are in a transactional relationship and she is fucking you for the money.  

When the money runs out she is gone.

Enjoy it while it lasts!

I just got home tired and happy from BCD date #5 with my latest slim, beautiful, reliable 23 yo Latina. We did it all, so far she's never said no to anything I've suggested.  And then I read your post. I've dodged a few bullets in my sugaring career, but never had any experiences as bad as the 3 you described.  So I count myself lucky, but will heighten my spidey senses for the red flags!  So sorry you had those experiences, but thanks for sharing!

netnoy, with hindsight, were there obvious clues in the SB's profile or initial interactions with you? how do you filter out potential train wrecks now.

A few things.  Herbs post of don't do it's are pretty good as well.

1. Be very clear on what I expect.  
2. Expect most are going to be short term
3. No money until after the date.  Even with longer term SBs.
4. Not agreeing to pay rent for a girl until we've been together consistently for a year.  And they know they have to keep up their end for the entire month for me to pay rent next month.  So, the most a long term SB would get if they ditched me is one month of free rent.  I can afford to be out 2k
5. Get to know who their friends are.  I don't actually meet them.  But they show me their social media, etc.  if there are a ton of guys, massive red flag.  
6.  Know who their roommates are.  Same thing.  They live with a guy, it's a pass.
7.  Know if they are single or cheating.  I don't like drama or risk so anyone with me has to be monogamous.  I also don't like condoms so they have to be tested.  I am too.  If you are ok with a girl who's seeing multiple guys or is has a husband that's up to you.  I don't want to be around when he finds out though.
8. I'm fine with a few video dates to get her comfortable with having sex.  But I don't pay for it.  I'm very clear up front about it.

I do have one very long term SB now.  She is great and we have actually gone to the point of meeting each others friends and family. No one knows how we met of course.  That's our business.  But, this is VERY rare.