I'm happy to report my slump has ended. It's taken a lot of work, but the last few months has yielded some [arguably] good results. Thought I'd share some of the hard numbers with my fellow brotherhood here. 3-6 months ago when several of my regulars became unreliable I needed to find replacements.
I found the going much tougher finding decent prospects the second time around, with a very high proliferation of scammers, flakes and phonies. Thus began a 3 month slump during which I was unable to land much more than a handful of M&G's, none of which went to BCD. [various reasons, some were my choice, some were theirs to not proceed]
Generally, the quality of the available POTS was down from a year ago, and getting to an M&G much more difficult. Around the end of Sept things began to pick up. Now, end of Oct, I have 4 new regulars in my rotation, [one 6.5 and the rest solid 7's to 7.5's] Since I continued to reach out to new POTS beyond the 150 count as of Oct 1, there was some overlap in results but for the sake of this experiment, I am using 30 days = 150 contacts and 4 finals as my final result. Here's how it breaks down:
Sept 1st-30th [30 days] - I reached out to 150 POTS, sending out about 5 per day. These were curated, mostly 7's, some 8's and I threw in some questionable 9-'s-10's model-types. [assuming those were fake from the git-go, and they were].
My criteria was pretty open, they had to be better-than average attractive and be within a 50 mile radius of my location. [GREATER LOS ANGELES] I avoided obvious fakes and stuck to 6's-7's and even some 8's. I contacted each with a nice opening introduction with something in their profile mentioned, and the ask that they respond if interested. I also made it clear I was looking for something mutually beneficial. [a little risky.]
150 REACH OUTS SENT:
90 - NO REPLY - [Some of these deactivated their accounts or were deleted, most are still active].
50 - REPLIED but either GHOSTED at some point in exchange or were outright scammers wanting $ up front or wanted much higher than average PPMS/Allowance.
10 - REPLIED and ENGAGED enough to set up voice call/M&G but 5 of these flaked or cancelled
5 - MET FOR M&G, of these,
4 - WENT TO BCD/BECAME REGULARS for regular XXX bi-weekly meets.
They range in age from 28-50. [28, 30, 39, 50 to be exact.] 3 are exceptionally attractive and would turn heads in any restaurant and the 4th average-to-nice GND type, think 'Jennifer Aniston or Jennifer Lawrence-type pretty with nice bodies all.
So there you have it. One month, 150 POTS contacted and 4 regulars scored for my efforts. I waited 30 days from my 150th contact to tally the scores.
Overall, while I'm not happy with the number of POTS I had to reach out to given all the sifting and replying and follow ups as well as the dead ends [+ phone calls scheduled and flaked on], I am happy with having scored four very nice, attractive women who are good in the sack and are, at this writing, all seemingly happy with the arrangement and appear to be keepers for at least the immediate future. Of course the status of these SR's can change at any moment, given the unpredictable nature of the SB.
I've not been able to contact an additional 150 for the next batch, in fact, have only reached out to an additional 50 in the past 30 days, as I've curated pretty much all of the available women I find attractive enough to pursue that meet my distance radius requirement. Of those 50, one has already resulted in a successful M&G and the other is scheduled for this week, so this would also skew the average if included in this experiment, which it isn't.
The problem I have now is I have more SB's than I can actually handle between time and budget constraints, so I may have to either widen the time gap in the rotation or let some go. Some of these gals may return to the fold as floaters or occasional visits, as one of my earlier SB's from this past year has.
My conclusion is, that as of now, for me, the juice is still worth the squeeze. I will say I have gotten a LOT of pussy through seeking in the past year, far more than I ever dreamed I could or would. I've also enhanced the lives of quite a few ladies with financial and emotional support and made their world just that much happier/easier. It is indeed a win/win for all involved. I am grateful for this community and I am also grateful to have found this lifestyle in my senior years, something I never dreamed would be possible.
SIDE NOTE: My score ratio would have been better had I been less discriminating on quality, as I feel I would have easily landed many more POTS who were average 5's-6's, but I decided to focus on as high a quality of POT as I could reasonably find attractive enough to sustain my interest as keepers.
I appreciate all of you, your stories, tips, trials and tribulations.
A special thank you to Herb, who has been a phenomenal friend, mentor and a wealth of great advice.
Life is Good indeed!
Keep on sugaring my fellow friends
Adonis