It is still early days for me as a sugar daddy. I have seen one of my Sugar Babies about 5 times and the other 3 times, but only one full (i.e. with sex) date, so there is a lot I don't know about how it will play out. There is one thing I have noticed - my sugar babies are not as hot or as sexually adept and open as my hooker friends were.

Both of my SBs are pretty and sexy, just not as pretty, sexy or eager to please as my old hooker friends. Of course, I get a more relaxed, personal and intimate experience with the SBs, more real, if you will. I never have felt that the scores on TER mean much - way too subjective and variable from reviewer to reviewer to be useful - so I won't throw out numbers but my hooker friends were hotter, worked harder, did more. For example, is a long, relaxed date a better performance than a short date with a woman who wants to please me as much as possible (and knows how to do it) in that short time and then move me out? Got me.

It is a predictable transition from flirting and chasing skirts to defining and settling into relationships (never liked that word, but it applies). Less frenzied, less exciting, less heady, for sure. Boring in a sense. We are working on schedules, agreeing on activities (is every date a big party, or do we have a standard, basic date with special occasions, big dates - it is the latter, btw). How adventurous and varied will the sex be? How open will they be about their lives?  How open do I want to be, and do I want them to be? I do not like, and will not like, everything I learn. So far it seems that I am a lot more sexually adventurous than either of my SBs, and I am going slow in pushing their boundaries. They each have wild sides in bed, just not as wild as I have been and might like to be again.

Finally, there is this one last thing - I am not infatuated with either of these women. I find them both interesting and like them, but I do not have any sort of feelings for either of them beyond a friendly interest - they are pleasant to hang out with, pretty, sexy, good in bed. So as I get to know them better there are moments when I wonder about each, how this will play out a friends and lovers.

No regrets, but now it's real. For the one and done guys, feel free to read this as confirming why you play the way you do. For me, it is the price I pay for the intimacy and familiarity I want. I had not thought through the fact that there is one more threshold I need to pass - let's call it the 8 date line. After 8 dates will it still be fun, fresh and exciting with one or both of them? Impossible  to know until we get there. Stay tuned.

zig

Under my old TER handle, I had fucked at least 30 of the local market hookers out those 10 of which were consistently in the top 10. I will also be the first to admit of inflating my given (TER) scores on those who should have been scored around 7-8 instead of the 9s and the 10s I was handing out like candy! In fact when I came back and rated a 7 as an actual 7, I got backlash and threats! To this date, she still uses the photos which she admitted to me she was lifting off of Las Vegas social scenes and obscuring the random girl's face! And also to this date, she is still getting nothing less than a 9 (7 is generous for someone who is actually 40 but claims to be 30!).

Hookers make more $ so they can spend more on professional photos, hair and makeup. I loathe to be with a woman who is heavily makeup and all "glammed" up with the aid of the Mac Forcefield and those horse hair extensions, but to each his own! In my experience most of the SBs are definitely younger, fresher and more natural than the hookers I've wasted my $ on in the past. Apply professional makeup, great hair do, set of bolt ons, collagen inflated lips, La Perla underwear and the "magic" of Aldo's photography to most of your SBs, and then come to talk to me

Who are you referring to?

The sex isn't as off the wall and the makeup isnt perfect. However I much prefer the more authentic feel to  a SB date and not having any time concerns. Ive seen this one lady twice. Her profile said 31. She confessed to 39. Body of a 25 yo. Daty  bbbjcim, msog. Great kisser. 300 and she was here for 3 hours. Most of spent naked in bed.

The past three weeks I've been happier than a pig in ... pussy.  Sure, some girls were fatter than I expected, one older (but gave a great bbbj and amazing surgical tits).  But today I ad a 21 year old, beautiful thin girl with amazing 34C breasts, and well, it was a no go.  She was very shy, but had no problem with, we need to get to the bedroom as I need to leave in 30 minutes.  So up we go, she strips, amazing body, I got hard, she's like thats a nice dick, then she whips her ass around sucks my dick and holy fuck it smelled.  First she was not big on kissing and I smelled her onions from whatever she was eating.  Then she goes eat my pussy and I'll suck your dick.  But oohh the humanity..  the smell, then I saw white cream.
I lost it.  No erection.  I thought , well, maybe I can fuck her, she must be tight and so incredibly beautify and all FOR ONLY $300!!!
Nope, I just couldn't get it hard.  I even said hold, on, let me get my magic pill.  Again, nothing could make me me hard.  She was I hope it wasn't me.  I wanted so bad to say yes, but I was a gentlemen.  In hindsight I should have.
Oh well, its was only $300

I  had a personal hygiene discussion with a SB. She thought a shower the previous day was ok. I told her no. Try within an hour or 2. No daty that date.  

I have found almost none of the SB's I have seen have been anything but the most passionate kissers, much better than all but the very best hookers, and even then the SB's seem to kiss with more sincerity than hookers. The only exceptions I can think of since being in the Sugar Bowl was with SB's who were actually hookers masquerading as an SB.

but I too will confess to having slightly lower standards where it comes to having that perfect body, perfect makeup and an "all about me" session. SB sex is similar to civvie sex in the sense that with a hooker I don't really care much if "she" cums. With SB's I always make it a point to make sure she "gets hers" before I "get mine"  I has surprised me that a lot of SB's really do like to fuck for hours, unlike hookers who rarely enjoy more than twenty-thirty minutes of actual intercourse at a time.

Since I have no VIP, I'm unable to back channel either but no worries, she's not a very active one as her reviews p[op up every month or so. Has a younger cohort who does the same thing but the younger roomie is actually cuter who is in her late 20's.

J/K... NOT! Well, maybe! LOLz...

I've dated SBs who I got bored with after one to three dates and I moved on.  But there was one 23yo who I was extremely connected to.  By a wide margin she was the most interesting, sexy, young woman I've ever had the pleasure of dating.  We had 22 dates over the course of one year, at which point she went through some personal hard times and called it quits.  I still miss her. I will agree with you that even the most sexually enthusiastic, uninhibited SBs are less skilled at pleasing a man than the pros are.  But if you want a truly intimate meaningful affectionate relationship you won't get that with a pro.  You just might with a SB.  Hang in there and work your way through as many as it takes to find the special one.  Or two.  Or more.

Zig, this shit is addictive, much more than seeing the pros, I just went Premium again