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I don't know if it's a Gen Z thing or just how some individuals operate.  I've definitely encountered the same type of frustrating behavior, but also encountered some who were excellent and responsive communicators.  The most frustrating part of course is the opportunity cost. If I commit to meeting someone on a certain day, and they don't reply to confirm, I might wind up wasting the day. I don't use backups or double and triple book.  If you are waiting for #1 to reply and confirm, how do you handle the 2 backups?  One way or another you're going to have to back out and disappoint someone, right?  

herbtcat78 reads

I get it.  It's normal with Gen Z (born after 2000) to send a text and then wait... and wait... and wait for a reply.  

 
It's just the norm. Texts can be looked at and ignored for hours (days?) and then answered as though it was immediate.  

 
But for fuck's sake! It's frustrating when you connect with a 24-year-old super cute, demure, and interesting POT and you are trying to arrange a M&G.  On Thursday, I suggested we meet on Sunday. She asks what time and I reply. Then..... nothing.  

 
Until Friday when - nothing.  Ok so Saturday and - nothing. I send a follow up asking if the time suggested is good. Nothing.  

 
My Spidey Senses tell me she's not bailing. It's just how Gen Z communicates.  So I'll keep the time slot (and prep time) open for now and will line up 2 backups at the same because I plan on going BCD tomorrow with her or someone else.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

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sweetman4 reads

I don't know if it's a Gen Z thing or just how some individuals operate.  I've definitely encountered the same type of frustrating behavior, but also encountered some who were excellent and responsive communicators.  The most frustrating part of course is the opportunity cost. If I commit to meeting someone on a certain day, and they don't reply to confirm, I might wind up wasting the day. I don't use backups or double and triple book.  If you are waiting for #1 to reply and confirm, how do you handle the 2 backups?  One way or another you're going to have to back out and disappoint someone, right?  

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herbtcat5 reads

Posted By: sweetman
One way or another you're going to have to back out and disappoint someone, right?  
Not quite.  

 
When I think of backups, I typically use options that can be invoked in near real-time. These include AAMP's, "extras available" strip clubs, and a semi-pro who I see a few times a year.  

 
But I take your point. No matter what type of backup option used, planning is required as well as logistics management.  

 
Update on the POT in question: Still no response. And I have spotted her profile on other sugar sites. So she is probably "SD shopping" with a priority on wallet size. Not mad about that; it's the nature of the game.  

 
Life is good

 
The Catr

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Euro-Guy1 reads

I remember saying the same exact thing many years ago on this forum and being chided by nearly all the members that it is the nature of the game and that my impatience gives SB the upper hand.

Seems times are a changing.   :)

Even with my relatively tight little harem, only my #1 always returns my messages immediately with #2-3 being all over the place and part time #4 being in outer space. I've carefully tried to analyze the reasoning behind their behavior bc I know their phones are basically glued to their heads!

Conclusions: SB live in a different world, uncertainly is the norm not the exception...they tend to stay up/work until late at night and often sleep much of the day... they tend to live for the moment, meaning its more what's in it for them vs. your needs.  It's a bit like the old construction adage: their interest is proportional to  expectations of future/additional money.

But equally, at least in my experience, it's not so much they are jockeying for a better deal from a big-wallet sugar daddy.  As an example, my #2, a knockout blond with gigantic boobs currently waitresses and is approached the entire night by guys looking for a hot date. When I asked how she reacts to them, she very matter of factly just says to them: "whats in it for me." At least for the moment I seem to rise above the competition but that doesn't mean it won't be 2 days+ between responding to my messages... go figure.

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