Traveling, I understand what you are saying but my take on it is slightly different. I am tall and have an athletic build so weight is not a problem for me.
I had a heart catheterization procedure done about ten years ago (fortunately everything was fine).
Since that time, having a woman on top has been uncomfortable for me. It seems like I am more aware of the pressure on my groin (I don't mean testicles, I mean the area next to the penis where the incision was made) now than ever before the procedure.
I feel sad in a way because it does seem, as Love Goddess mentioned, so many ladies prefer being on top and I feel I am missing out on something.
I've been reading the threads down below about ED and got to thinking. As I age, certainly the quality of my erections are not what they used to be or what I'd like them to be. I've noticed recently that my SO and the few providers that I've been fortunate enough to see have all wanted get on top and ride. Just wondering if it may be because I'm not as hard as I used to be when aroused. Maybe it's easier to keep it in and put it where you want it when you're on top. I miss the days when I could get on top or enter doggie and just bang away. Sigh,...guess those days are over. Just wondering if anybody else had had similar experiences.
The desire of women - providers or not - to go cowgirl has less to do with you and more to do with the female anatomy. The fact is that many women do NOT orgasm while in missionary position. This is because the clitoris may not receive enough stimulation. On the other hand, climbing on top creates more control and more friction against the tissue surrounding the clitoris and the clitoris itself. In addition, some women may even get their urethral sponge area (G-spot area) stimulated and can enjoy some serious gushing orgasms.
Unless you are hell-bent on going mish, then just enjoy the ride. If otherwise, then pay a visit to your doc and if you are a candidate, get a script for an ED med.
Traveling, I understand what you are saying but my take on it is slightly different. I am tall and have an athletic build so weight is not a problem for me.
I had a heart catheterization procedure done about ten years ago (fortunately everything was fine).
Since that time, having a woman on top has been uncomfortable for me. It seems like I am more aware of the pressure on my groin (I don't mean testicles, I mean the area next to the penis where the incision was made) now than ever before the procedure.
I feel sad in a way because it does seem, as Love Goddess mentioned, so many ladies prefer being on top and I feel I am missing out on something.
True...I find out that women seem to want to get on top. I just figured that they like it. That being said, I also have problems keeping it hard. You could have it worse, at least you remember the days you could do doggie and mish and just bang away. I've NEVER been able to do it and just dream about it.
Probably nothing to it but I used to feel more challenged on erection maintenance with her on top.... still sometimes don't hold it long, where in missionary less problems.
That being said though... it's all relative to how excited she and I are... If I am revved up to full throttle aroused physically and in the sensual/psychological/seductive aspects, it matters little who is on top. .... And if she is having a wonderful time up there it only adds to the pleasure and excitement.
A whole lot of ED management for me is in the learning each other, learning myself, and maximizing the sensual/seductive/pshchological parts.... the 'connection' if you will!
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