A sugar daddy lesson learned. Having broken up with my #1 SB after a number of years, yesterday I decided to get back in the pool.

Big mistake.

Found a really cute young blonde on SB, seemed promising, Made arrangements to meet at her studio apartment downtown. I arrived and as advertised she was adorable with a nice body which when nude revealed nice perky tits, a good ass and a shaved pussy which was the tightest I've caressed in a long time.

It went downhill from there. She had a good-sized dog which she said shw would place in the bathroom. She did not but it was okay as the dog lay quietly at the side of the bed and was no trouble. I caressed this young woman's pussy and it was so tight, I suggested some of the lube I had brought along. She declined so I went down on her and she barely responded. Finger fucked a bit; she didn't care for that either. Asked her to suck my cock and she responded that it would cost extra, then said she couldn't suck a dick that wasn't yet hard. I said sucking it to hardness was the whole idea! She briefly took it in her mouth but not enough to get my full attention.

Downhill from there and finally we decided to stop. It was clear that she was not as advertised in her profile and that she knew little to next to nothng about foreplay or real fucking. Open mouth kissing but no tongue, for example. She talked a good game but once in the sack was unable to deliver.

I suspect she's one of those young women who learn about sugaring from exaggerated and false social media/YouTube/TikTok info. There's not really a way I could have known until we actually were in bed. I think she expected me to stick it in, cum and leave.

Oh well. I remain undaunted!

Sorry you had such a disappointing encounter.  It's quite unusual these days to find girls in the SB who are that clueless about sex.  It's surprising.  Generally speaking I find the youngest ones to be impressively in tune with their bodies, their desires, and their eagerness to please.  Oh well, on to the nest!

Red flag there.  Almost always means she's an escort, not an SB.  It sounds like she has a fee structure built in.  With add ons as you are horny for more $.  So not looking for an ongoing arrangement, just more clients.

She just didn’t feel like doing it, or wanted more $$$.   Bet she does it all with her same age b/f.  

No, I really think she was pretty clueless. I've been doing this for a long time. She had some of the lingo down but no expertise whatsoever.

That has all the markings of a cheap car date, only it wasn't in a car.  

 
I rarely agree to meet for BCD without a M&G first, usually set up without a BCD date scheduled yet. During the M&G I will ask/discuss, among other things, what her sexual comfort level is what her limits are for various activities. I tell her I love oral, giving and getting. If her response is less than enthusiastic, I dig a bit deeper to see why.    

 
I recall a M&G several years ago with an early 30's Asian Real Estate agent. She was new to the bowl, after a recent breakup with a long-term BF.  During our chat, she mentions she was dealing with some past sexual trauma and when she started dating the BF she was only comfortable with lying on her back while he penetrated her in missionary.  She never gave the guy oral, never wanted it from him, and was not interested in any other positions or acts. I let her down gently, but firmly. I explained that I was not willing to agree to her restrictions and that I thought she would have an extremely difficult time finding any other SD who would as well.  If I hadn't gone through that discussion with her, I might have ended up wasting north of $1,000 on allowance and date expenses before I found out she was effectively a starfish, even if due to the heinous acts of her past abuser.  

 
Still, I have also had my share of performance disappointments. Perhaps in my younger days, I could just get hard and stick it in any hole to get off. But now? Now I need BCD time to be a participation activity.  

 
I think I agree with earlier responses. She is likely a (rather lousy) hooker who is trying to drum up new business without walking the local strip or advertising on ListCrawler.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

This is why careful vetting and a separate day M&G is essential to establish what you are both looking for and to avoid disappointments. Communication about sexual expectations during the M&G or prior to BCD, as Herb has pointed out, is the key to avoiding this situation in the future. While it's not foolproof and you may still get a bum steer, at least you'll have mitigated your failure rate and increased your success rate in finding a compatible SB.  

One can vet all one wants, but it is only when the panties drop that the truth will emerge.