The Erotic Highway

AirBnB
sffxrt 1621 reads
posted
1 / 25

SA newbie here.  It's obvious (to me) that some young ladies are willing to simply meet for the first time and play - a P4P encounter.  But I do not have a place that I can invite the lady to.  So how do others go about it?

Meet (to verify) and then get a hotel room while the lady waits?  Or get the room first, and then hope she shows up?  How do others do it?

[PS - Thanks to all, but if you have your own place, spare us all the "I have my only place so this doesn't apply to me" replies.]

souls_harbor 128 reads
posted
2 / 25

SB's are notoriously flakey.   If you want to lose your hotel deposits book in advance.  Otherwise I'd wait for her to be with me before booking.

GaGambler 134 reads
posted
3 / 25

but I live in a tiny city and often see girls that live an hour or more away from me which does necessitate getting a room.

 
What I do when meeting a POT SB for the first time is to check out the area where we are meeting for hotel availability before meeting, but I don't actually book the room until we are together. SB's can be very flakey and it's bad enough to have your time wasted, but paying for a room you will never use makes it all the worse when you get flaked on.

souls_harbor 131 reads
posted
4 / 25

As an example of flakey, I let an SB pick the day (yesterday) and the time (evening) for our first meeting.  That morning she said she couldn't meet in the evening because she had something else going on.  She asked if we could meet for lunch instead.   I agreed to that.  Then about an hour before lunch she said she was called into work to cover someone.  Said she'd reschedule in the future.  I don't actually expect to hear from her again.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 154 reads
posted
5 / 25

that even I, a certified technophobe, can do it.

Just go to Priceline or similar site and see what hotels are having a special in your area, add your CC info, and click.

When you show up in ten minutes, they'll be waiting for you.

Of course, if the Super Bowl is taking place in the city that day, this won't work, but it does work 99% of the time.

sweetman 93 Reviews 125 reads
posted
6 / 25

I've had many SBs who wanted to dispense with the coffee date entirely and meet BCD right off the bat, which is usually fine with me.  Usually.  Sometimes they do not look as appalling in person as in their profile pics and I should have insisted on coffee first.  But I digress.  I usually date around 50 miles from home.  I found a nice homestyle cafe that is right next door to two affordable motels.  So I'll ask the SB to meet me for coffee and then if we want to extend our date to a private setting I only have to go next door to book a room.  

Second Idea is one I often get teased about here for some reason, but since you are new to sugar dating I'll repeat.  Get yourself a nice RV.  I have one which I use for nearly all my dating these days, it's cheaper than hotel rooms, very practical, and the girls seem to like it a lot!  Just the other day I had a new to me SB meet me for lunch.  I chose the restaurant because it was part of a big shopping complex with acres of parking.  I brought the RV and parked it, and when the conversation turned into, hey let's get intimate right now, I told her I'd brought my RV, we went out to the parking lot together, closed the curtains and had a fine old time in bed.

tankbinding 16 Reviews 132 reads
posted
7 / 25

More appalling in person...  I know I do!!

souls_harbor 129 reads
posted
8 / 25

I don't see much utility in an RV, though.  If you are married and can just take the RV anywhere without the wife suspecting??? ...  But if you are not married, then you can use your own home/apartment, so no big need for an RV.

JustSayMyName 56 Reviews 132 reads
posted
9 / 25

A secret RV could be pretty good. If you’re married, you’re already hiding a shit ton of things in order to be doing this, so an RV wouldn’t be that hard to hide. If you’re in a population dense area though, i would just stick to hotels or even just get an apartment.

mrfisher 115 Reviews 140 reads
posted
10 / 25
AsmodeusJones 107 reads
posted
11 / 25

Booking, paying, and checking in in advance is obviously always the riskiest with a POT you've never seen.  There's the major risk of a flat-out no-show, and even after a good M&G, not every SB wants to go immediately BCD.

Of course, the opposite extreme - fumbling around trying to find a last minute room while an eager SB waits doesn't look great either.  So a few in-between options:

Priceline often has a number of 'reserve and pay later' options, many of them with liberal cancellation policies.  It's pretty harmless to have a reservation made and cancel it if things don't work out, and this way you'll have a choice of room types, locations, etc.  If your playtime is during the day, it may be worth a quick call before or after using this option to make sure early check-in is possible.  It's usually not a problem, but places are sometimes literally full and that could be an embarassing last-minute snag.

On that note, the website dayuse.com has worked out well a few times for me.  If you're in an area they cover, they offer a small selection of hotels that will make rooms available for parts of a day at a reduced rate.  Check-ins can be as early as 8 AM and checkout's usually around 3, and you can cancel at any time.  You pay when you check-in, so all you really need is a name, email, and phone # on the site.  Not relevant to everyone's patterns and they have a limited selection, but it can be a really good option if that's what your schedule allows.

sweetman 93 Reviews 133 reads
posted
12 / 25

that's got to be one of the funniest misprints I ever committed!  Actually some of them have been incredibly appealing while others have indeed been appalling!

sweetman 93 Reviews 121 reads
posted
13 / 25

Or number three, my actual situation.  I am married and live a happy polyamorous lifestyle with my awesome wife.  She has a fine BF I have my Sugar Dating, and we are totally honest about everything.  So our lives are full of love and pleasure with zero drama, jealousy or deceit.  I recommend it highly, and never need to hide my use of the RV for dating purposes.

JustSayMyName 56 Reviews 184 reads
posted
14 / 25

I should add here a trick that's helped me a few times.  I have Marriott Rewards Gold Elite status, which guarantees 4 pm checkout.  This gives plenty of time to see two different sugar babies during the same stay or get a lot more sex out of one girl.

travelinman51 129 reads
posted
15 / 25

I am in a similar situation and in fact, made a similar post a few weeks back.  Still don't have the perfect solution but here are a couple of other ideas.  AirBnB or similar often offers cheaper alternatives to hotels that are sometimes more conveniently located.  I was worried about the SB's reaction to meeting at an apartment but have not received any negative feedback from anyone.  I'm not 100% sure but I think I've only met SBs whom I have already seen at the AirBnB's though.  

I am generally a planner and prefer to have something booked in advance of a meeting.  I have not had much of a problem with flakes but when I do book a room, I almost always arrange to meet one or even two (seperately) SB's on the afternoon/evening that I check-in and then have another set up for the following morning.  Even if one flakes, you are still likely to have at least one encounter.

I have not used the Dayuse.com option but will definitely give that a try!!

souls_harbor 143 reads
posted
16 / 25

Hadn't considered that, but what are the chances they'll think you're kind of sketchy and refuse to rent to you?  I mean like a 65 year old guy showing up with a 19 year old girl.  Even a moron is going to wonder about that.

Glascock69 8 Reviews 135 reads
posted
17 / 25

Air BnB landlords in my locale are very nosy as to who their short-term tenants are, some seem genuinely lonely and want to engage extensively on one's way in the door...Tried it a couple times b/c price point, but lf l had to rely on Air BnB for BCD's the game would be over.

Even budget hoteliers don't miss a beat, only the generally preoccupied front-desk clerks sometimes miss what's going on...These people are all eyes and ears, it seems :(

souls_harbor 126 reads
posted
18 / 25

The hotel staff can't be sure if it's an affair (legal) or hooking. So they mostly just shrug and let it pass. But somebody renting out a room might not want to take  chances.

travelinman51 128 reads
posted
19 / 25

Where I am there are plenty of AirBnb owners who simply leave the key in a lock box, send you the instructions and you let yourself in.  I will only stay at those places and usually I check in alone and then go meet my SB or have her come to the apartment.  

JustSayMyName 56 Reviews 148 reads
posted
20 / 25

Hotels know the deal.  They don't care if it's hooking or sugaring or whatever, as long as you're not making a racket and it doesn't look like you're kidnapping her.  I once checked in and checked out with 2 different girls only to check back in again later that day with a different girl and then check out again with yet another girl.  So 4 girls in two days, and the clerk was the same young Asian guy.  He kind of just looked at me like, "WTF?!"  

If you seem like a nice guy and make the usual small talk with everyone, I can't see them making a stink over an honest paying customer.  But also, I look young, and I never get second glances when I'm out with sugar babies other than when she is insanely hot and dressed to kill.

AirBnBs can definitely be a problem if the host is around.  I had one host make some moves on me.  It would have been weird if I had a girl with me that trip.  Just make sure you have the entire place to yourself.  

svenodyo76719 29 Reviews 154 reads
posted
21 / 25
souls_harbor 134 reads
posted
22 / 25

A website. It's like classified ads for rooms or houses to rent short term. You can get somebody's spare bedroom for $35 a night.  Or you can get somebody's empty house for the night, week, etc.

DiskSpinner 27 Reviews 126 reads
posted
23 / 25

I had a thread several months ago about this, but I have a place I stay in LA where my hostess is someone I met via SA. I spend a little less than a week with her when I'm in town, pay what amounts to an AirBnB fee under the table, and she gives me a receipt for the lodging from a little LLC she set up at a fair price that my client is happy to reimburse. My visits are often enough and consistent enough that she doesn't ask for any further allowance. I supplement with groceries, wine, meals out, and the occasional small thoughtful present. Works out well.  

Of course my visits last a little longer than I tell her so I have time to take care of the rest of the rotation, but it's a pretty good deal.

svenodyo76719 29 Reviews 148 reads
posted
24 / 25

Wow, thanks guys! Just googled airbnb and opened up a.whole new world of opportunity for me. This one guy was renting out a lower unit in a duplex for $25.00 a night..whooao

svenodyo76719 29 Reviews 136 reads
posted
25 / 25

Someones spare bedroom a night you say..lolo hope my S.B.'s not a screamer..lol

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