The Erotic Highway

Agree completely with Herb
Scaramouche 204 Reviews 923 reads
posted
1 / 11

There was a heated discussion on another forum about SBs and kissing.. according to many of the gals (and some guys) younger chicks are not much into DFK and some get turned off by guys 'slobbering' or going in aggressively with tongue. I found it odd that some would be OK with PIV and BBBJ but not DFK but maybe it's a generational thing.
And counterintuitively, I have found pros generally more into DFK than a lot of SBs, and wonder if they feel a need to do it as part of the "job."
Interested to hear from some of youse guys about your experiences in this area, if it matters to you. It does generally to me and my inclination would be to say SBs would be more into DFK because they choose their partners.. but maybe I'm wrong...

herbtcat 6 Reviews 76 reads
posted
2 / 11

I've had a few SB's who weren't into DFK and they didn't last long.   My guess is that it wasn't doing DFK that was the problem, or reason for the short term. DFK was more a symptom of an SB who really wasn't into me, or into being an SB.  

 
I now make it part of my "full transparency" discussion with POT's about what each of us likes, dislikes and hard boundaries.  

 
Coincidentally, DFK is also a must have requirement for me when booking a pro.  But that's just me.  

 
Life is good

 
The Cat

sweetman 93 Reviews 67 reads
posted
3 / 11

I've rarely found a SB who refused DFK.  Generally they are really into it, and it always presages even better things to cum.  Even my youngest SBs, which at the moment means  two 24 yo, are totally into kissing.  So I don't think it's an age thing, or a SB thing.  I think as, Herb said, it's simply and indication of a female who's really not into the whole sensuality thing.  

Rberger 70 reads
posted
4 / 11

Had similar issue with an 30 YO SB. First BCD meeting resulted in being shunned when I tried to convert from LFK to DFK. She told me it was to intimate and personal for our first meeting. I respected her request and figured she may let her guard down and build trust over time. Into third meeting, same thing. We mutually parted ways after that. Some other younger SB(24-28) had no issues what so ever. They actually initiated it immediately once the door closed. I totally believe it is a comfort level they have with their SD partner.

girlfan1959 48 Reviews 57 reads
posted
5 / 11

I agree completely with Herb. DFK is a must for pros and SBs. If a pro doesn't want to do DFK, you know that it isn't going to be a GFE. Gals who are into any form of "compensated" dating are not only doing it for the money; they are doing it because they enjoy it too. If they are doing it for the money only, they don't last long.

I have never met a SB, however young, who wasn't into DFK in addition to going to bedroom activities. My only differing experiences were with two young SBs who were mostly into DFK instead of going BCD. One was a 18 year old who wanted a couple of dates with only DFK the first time and DFK and petting too the second time before going BCD (where she turned out to be a very enthusiastic slut and well worth the warm up dates), and the other one (in her early twenties) considered DFK what sugaring was all about.

-- Modified on 2/5/2022 3:13:21 PM

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 61 reads
posted
6 / 11

Not everybody likes a lot of slobber.  I wouldn't read it as a comfort level.  They wouldn't like it with anyone.

PolePosition 70 reads
posted
7 / 11

Most of my group likes to wrap their tongue around my hard dick and less so around my tongue.  I dunno, seems to make both of us happy. I suppose considering there is only so much tongue-time available, I tend to prefer the former rather than the latter.

Roberto46 12 Reviews 70 reads
posted
8 / 11

I put passionate kisses on my profile. I ask them to review my profile before we meet. That was in response to meeting a couple who weren’t into it.

emlwccv 55 reads
posted
9 / 11

I had a SB who only provided a warm up first time BCD.  We were intertwined forever but she held her ground.  After, I was disappointed but honestly couldn't wait to see her again.  She knew it.  Date 2 was off the charts.  While pricier than preferred, the sum of these two dates was a top experience for me.
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Like most, I do a no cash m&g followed by date 2 BCD (if we match).  Following my warm up girl exp., I will wait until date 3 for the right girl if I have to but that's it.  Really great luck so far.

hardknocks6 37 Reviews 83 reads
posted
10 / 11

I agree with all of the above -- DFK is a requirement for me.

I have one notable exception in my background -- true Unicorn...dated 27 months.  Not a great kisser, but fun and passionate after she was fully turned on.  After a year, she just quit kissing.  No explanation, and when I asked, she said "I'm sure you will agree that I can do other great things with my tongue..."  She was certainly right about that, and I never got any other explanation.  I dated her for 15 more months, and don't regret a minute of it.

Scaramouche 204 Reviews 47 reads
posted
11 / 11

I agree with you guys that DFK is a big deal.. at the same time if the gals are near-perfect in every other way it's something I can deal with.

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