After a month on SDM I wanted to post a review.  This is two parts.  First is pros and cons.  Second is after action reports.

Pros
1. 1/3rd the price
2. Chatrooms.  Not as populated as I'd like, but a good way for targeted searches
3. No restrictions on conversations.  Can discuss sex, ppm and allowance without concern.
4. Conversations don't delete after six months.  Chats from years ago are still on there so anyone I spoke to in the past I can see it.  SA deletes anything over six months.
5. Pictures have several different categories including, Pets, Bold (usually for lingerie or bikini pics, and private.
6. Has swiping for matchmaking.  Kind of like tinder.  Not necessary to use but I like it
7. Fewer scams and wastes of time.  It's still there. But I think most scams are on the higher volume sites.
8. Reported profiles are not auto blocked.  So you can see if they get banned without using a ghost account  

Cons
1. Search function is not nearly as good.  Range minimum is 50 miles and you cannot search by what they are looking for to hone in.
2. Far fewer Indian pots.  Already were not a lot.  If this is a flavor you like, searching South Asian may help, but still not a lot.
3. Pot overlap with SA is medium.  White a few girls have profiles on both.  Questionable how often they log in
4. Email notifications of messages is horrid.  Maybe 1/6 messages will trigger an email to you. So you have to login.
5. Search function in messages is only by profile name.  If you are like me and want to look up by their phone number, it's not possible.  So save their contact info as their profile name.
6. Does not show last time they logged in.  Just if it was recent, which I could not find the definition of.  Meaning while searching, you have no idea how far down you are scrolling to still see active pots
7. Pot pool is smaller.
8. If a girl has multiple locations it doesn't show it like SA.  So college students from one town but at school in another can only show one.  Although a lot of girls from far away show in my search so I'm guessing their current location is near me?
9. Still plenty of delusional pots

Neutral  
1. Next to no trans.  Not my thing but may be others.  So I put it as neutral since some guys are into that.
2.  The amount of tail I'm chasing is still good.  But I'm not sure how sustainable it is long term.  I'm not seeing as many new profiles as I would on SA.